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31 F London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Polish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Bleep of consciousness in a biological husk.
Travelling between networks, not belonging to any.
Alternating between tension and suspension.
Making raw connections.

(Note: need to sort out my profile and inbox, the profile is a bit outdated and the pictures are a bit prettier ;p)

I am generally interested in the world around me and try to be less ignorant about things...most of my education was focused on arts subjects (went to music school form 5 to 16) and now I am trying to understand other aspects of the world, which is a bit difficult because I am scatterbrained.
I am both ignorant about and interested in maths.
I am a bit less ignorant about art, music and philosophy/literature (at least I hope so). I am currently still a student, after switching between few degrees and a stint in the 9-5 world.
Estimated arrival time: 2015.

I have a really soft spot for electronica music and 20th century composers. Feldman, Dutilleux, Szymanowski, etc.


I feel I have to mention this since OKC sexuality options are somehow limited. My orientation is somewhere around bi-romantic, and 'homoflexible' (urgh). Naturally I tend to be attracted primarily to the person and their mind and for a large part of my life I've identified as bisexual.

With age I've realised that regardless how much I'd love to be blind to gender and sex and love somebody based on their mind, this is a kind of misguided idealism and it does not work for me.

Whilst I see the positive sides of ethical non-monogamy and have experienced it to some extent, I think deep down I am more comfortable with an exclusive relationship.

Currently I share my home with the lovely
crumbleplum who is my ex-partner and a great friend.

Given my stage in life I think I am more comfortable with making friends.

I am hoping at some point to stumble across somebody with great mutual compatibility, but these things don't happen because 'we want them to', so I am taking it easy for now!


I am ruminative, curious, and occasional
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was (and still partially am) in a long period of suspension and rather banal existence with not much to be proud of.

I came to the conclusion that I ought to know mathematics:
I went to Germany to study it there, but had to put it on hold for personal reasons.
Currently in the UK studying Politics, which is less fascinating, but also less soul-destroying.

It could be said to be living like a hermit- it all serves a purpose in the larger context of my life, but to someone who is focused on status it would be rather devoid of meaning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
piano, learning European languages, being a pain in the a*se.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never encountered anyone impolite enough to let me know this. But
I constantly wonder...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
electronica, glitch, 20th century composers, Bach, old school
hip-hop, minimal, german idm, some indie rock, post rock, some
woodstock-era stuff, jazz, funk, some 80ties and 90ties
pop...generally interested in a lot of music but not having a great
memory to album names...

Bladerunner, Tetsuo the Ironman, Pi (kind of...), The Conversation
(genius), The Stalker (Tarkovsky) *favourite film ever*,
Fassibinder, Cronenberg and others.

seen this month:
Polanski-Tenant, Altman-Images, Cronenberg-The Brood, Louis Malle-
Zazie (brilliant).

Murakami, Gibson, P.K.Dick, Banana Yoshimoto, Iain M.Banks, JG
Ballard, Durenmatt, Jorge Luis Borges, Bertrand Russell- The
Conquest of Happiness.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Walking/running shoes
The bunny in my bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How awesome it would be to be able to travel to Mars...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No, not really, but probably something equally unimpressive.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-wear unmatching socks.
-like weird, bleepy electronica music.
-are a psychonaut