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sillysubmissive

26 / F / bisexual / Married

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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I am geeky, happily married, and only here for femmes.

My Self-Summary

I believe in total disclosure. I'm married with one child. I'm looking for friends, primarily female. It would be nice to meet some people who are Dominant/submissive since I know none locally. Also, Japanese-speaking individuals would be nice to know outside the classroom.

Moving along, I am a mother of one awesome baby boy and I think I'll quit while I'm ahead. He's so sweet and well-tempered it's crazy. He just likes everyone. Yep, qquitting while I'm ahead.

I think my user name explains the other bits, but you'll know me better via msg/IM.

*** Men, please don't message me with any intentions involving your penis and any part of my anatomy. I'm serious. If you wanna talk sci-fi, tech, gaming, or nihongo-- go right ahead and message me. I'm really 100% here for friends. Unless you're a cute nerdy girl, in which case I might giggle and blush and be slight ditsy for a little while.

What I’m doing with my life

At present I am laid off and back in school. Wow. I sound like a real catch. But seriously, I will go back in the office after Summer sessions are over and continue most courses online.

My true goal is to teach 3rd grade and share my love of the Japanese language with my students. There are some things other countries are better at. The Japanese school system is far superior to that of the US (IMHO). I would love to teach in Japan, but at this point in my life it is unlikely...unless we move there for good...hmm... this could work.

/dork
Now in Japanese
私は主婦と学生です。私の子供はとてもかわいいですよ!専門葉初等教育です。石鹸は作ります。

I’m really good at

I'm good at making people laugh, listening, trying to dance, cooking, laundry, buying ice cream, photography, make-up, hair, computer fun, and random tomfoolery.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm pretty tall for a girl. I have big eyes, a big smile and ridiculously big boobs that are no fun for shopping. If they were fake it'd be easier, but nope. God thinks back pain is hilarious.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'm a sci-fi geek. I love japanese food, esp sushi (maki most of all), wakame, and ocha. I love industrial/ebm, rock and old music from like the 40s and 50s.

The six things I could never do without

Aw man. My son, a good flat iron, and other stuff. Para Para DVDs and a player to watch them.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Zombies and the impending apocalypse.

On a typical Friday night I am

Home having fun with the husband and son. I miss partying though. It'd be nice to do that like once a month.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'd be really happy if I could have a living doll to dress up.I'd do her hair and make up and have tea with her. That sounds creepy when read, but oh well. It's totally not.

You should message me if

you're nice and looking for a friend to be silly with.