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49 Albuquerque, NM Man


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:01pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I grew up primarily in the New York City area, the only son of a divorced mother. I moved to Albuquerque in 2003, mostly because I had to move and my half-brother lives here. I have a bachelor's degree in animal science from Cornell, an associate's degree in jewelry design from FIT, and an associate's degree in veterinary technology from CNM. Although I consider myself to be a man of science, I have an interest in Paganism, a nature religion. I am also a member of the Unitarian Universalist Church. I'm an art jewelry designer and I like to make things. I'm fairly conscientious environmentally, and my politics are decidedly to the left. I used to be into the Gothic scene, and still appreciate a somewhat dark and mysterious esthetic. I tend to be a serious person who worries a lot but I do appreciate good humor. I love animals ( I work with them for a living) and have one long-haired black cat. I also enjoy reading, listening to KUNM on the radio (I don't own a TV), bicycling, dancing (on occasion), decorating my apartment, and taking good care of my car. I recognize a need to get out into nature more often.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently employed as a registered veterinary technician at a local animal clinic. I'm also working on getting my jewelry business off the ground. My main goal is to live a healthy, contented, and creative life. It would be nice to make a little more money someday, maybe get a house or something, but it's not an absolute necessity.
I’m really good at
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I'm generally adept at intellectual pursuits and have always done well at school. Sometimes the real world presents a challenge, however. I'm also good at designing and making things with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some people have said I look like Morrissey of the Smiths. I recently changed my hairstyle and look less so now. I am currently growing my hair longer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Jungle-Upton Sinclair, A People's History of the United States-Howard Zinn, A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man-James Joyce, vampire novels (mostly old school like Anne Rice).
Movies: Wings of Desire, Brazil, Annie Hall, Harold and Maude, Bram Stoker's Dracula, The Addams Family, anything by Michael Moore, The Corporation, Eraserhead, A Clockwork Orange, American Hustle.
Music: Old goth, some punk, shoegaze, trip-hop, 60's psychedelic rock, Indian classical music, Middle Eastern music, European classical music, some blues, some reggae, even some hip-hop..
Food: I am currently struggling with digestive issues. Trying to figure out what I can still eat without a problem.
TV and Netflix: I don't have a television but I have enjoyed Twin Peaks, The Daily Show, and The Colbert Report. Am currently viewing House of Cards and Orange is the New Black on occasion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Goddess
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why there is so much class inequality in the world. How things, work, and people are valued.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exercising, listening to the radio, reading, working on projects at home, checking my e-mail, and getting ready for work on Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes crossdress for kicks. Have done it a few times lately for special occasions. My style is somewhat Gothic (all black), not super feminine. I'm aiming more for androgyny. Not really into heels or makeup. I think most men's fashion is rather boring and I like the idea of making a fashion statement. Hey, you gals can wear men's clothing and nobody cares! (Of course, women have a lot more serious problems to deal with in this society.) Honestly, though, I don't take this whole crossdressing thing so seriously! By the way, I am most definitely heterosexual. Guess I still might scare many of you women off with this information. Oh, well! I think it best to mention it from the start.
You should message me if
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We seem to have a lot in common, you are open-minded, and you are reasonably attractive. Just being honest. I am not desperate for a partner at any cost. I have lived alone for many years now. No Republicans need apply!