Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up primarily in the New York City area, the only son of a
divorced mother. I moved to Albuquerque in 2003, mostly because I
had to move and my half-brother lives here. I have a bachelor's
degree in animal science from Cornell, an associate's degree in
jewelry design from FIT, and an associate's degree in veterinary
technology from CNM. Although I consider myself to be a man of
science, I have an interest in Paganism, a nature religion. I am
also a member of the Unitarian Universalist Church. I'm an art
jewelry designer and I like to make things. I'm fairly
conscientious environmentally, and my politics are decidedly to the
left. I used to be into the Gothic scene, and still appreciate a
somewhat dark and mysterious esthetic. I tend to be a serious
person who worries a lot but I do appreciate good humor. I love
animals ( I work with them for a living) and have one long-haired
black cat. I also enjoy reading, listening to KUNM on the radio (I
don't own a TV), bicycling, dancing (on occasion), decorating my
apartment, and taking good care of my car.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently employed as a registered veterinary technician at a
local animal clinic. I'm also working on getting my jewelry
business off the ground. My main goal is to live a healthy,
contented, and creative life. It would be nice to make a little
more money someday, maybe get a house or something, but it's not an
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm generally adept at intellectual pursuits and have always done
well at school. Sometimes the real world presents a challenge,
however. I'm also good at designing and making things with my
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some people have said I look like Morrissey of the Smiths. I
recently changed my hairstyle and look less so now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Jungle-Upton Sinclair, A People's History of the United
States-Howard Zinn, A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man-James
Joyce, vampire novels (mostly old school like Anne Rice).
Movies: Wings of Desire, Brazil, Annie Hall, Harold and Maude, Bram
Stoker's Dracula, The Addams Family, anything by Michael Moore, The
Corporation, Eraserhead, A Clockwork Orange, American Hustle.
Music: Old goth, some punk, 60's psychedelic rock, Indian classical
music, Middle Eastern music, European classical music, some
Food: I am currently struggling with digestive issues. Trying to
figure out what I can still eat without a problem.
TV and Netflix: I don't have a television but I have enjoyed Twin
Peaks, The Daily Show, and The Colbert Report. Am currently viewing
House of Cards and Orange is the New Black on occasion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why there is so much class inequality in the world. How things,
work, and people are valued.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exercising, listening to the radio, reading, working on projects at
home, checking my e-mail, and getting ready for work on Saturday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to crossdress for kicks. Have done it again a few times
lately for special occasions. My style is Gothic, not super
feminine. I'm aiming more for androgyny. Not really into heels or
makeup. I think most men's fashion is rather boring and I like the
idea of making a fashion statement. Hey, you gals can wear men's
clothing and nobody cares! Of course, women have a lot more serious
problems to deal with in this society. Honestly, though, I don't
take this whole crossdressing thing so seriously! By the way, I
still consider myself to be straight. Guess I still might scare
many of you ladies off with this information. Oh, well! I think it
best to mention it from the start.
You should message me if
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We seem to have a lot in common, you are open-minded, and you are
reasonably attractive. Just being honest. I am not desperate and
will not settle for less than what I consider acceptable. No
Republicans need apply!
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