Another ambition I have is to constantly expand my intellectual horizons. I have a huge stack of books that I'm currently reading or planning on reading sometime in the future, and I love heady conversations with fellow intellectuals. I know a little about everything and a lot about some things, and I'm always looking to learn more. I thought about pursuing a PhD in philosophy, but I don't want to go into a lengthy program that will take me away from my activist work.
I can be very analytic and scientific-minded, but I also have a spiritual side. I'm well-versed in most of the world's major spiritual/mystical traditions, but I mainly dabble in western traditions like Kabbalah, Hermeticism, and Christian mysticism. I love hearing people's spiritual or metaphysical views, even material or non-spiritual cosmologies. I'm not concerned whether you're religious, spiritual, or secular. Just please don't be arrogant and judgmental about it. People of the "true faith," including the faith of scientific materialism, annoy the shit out of me. Have a little humility, for fuck's sake.
I'm a dedicated feminist, but I do occasionally slip up, act out of privilege, and say problematic things. If you catch me doing this, feel free to call me out on it. It's how I learn. I used to suffer from "nice guy syndrome," where I'd complain about how unfair it is that women go for jerks while putting "nice guys" like me in the "friend zone." I've grown up a lot since then, gotten over that victim complex, and realized just how fucked up and misogynistic the "friend zone" is as a concept.
I'm poly-curious, but also have no problem being monogamous for the right person. Staying faithful to one partner has never been an issue for me, but after observing the relationship dynamics of friends who are poly, I'm intrigued by the openness and honesty of poly relationships. I do, however, hope to eventually find a primary partner who really resonates with me on a deep level, whether or not that relationship is exclusive.