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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 3, 2014
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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I've donated way too much of my life to my spawn, and now that my job is mostly done, it's time to get my thing back. I expect honesty and respect ,and love adventure and new things. Have always given more than what was returned, and put up with it for the sake of my kids.

I'm highly educated and have definite opinions about life, politics and religion, but I'm respectful of all opinions-and love an educated argument- as long as we can agree to disagree.

I don't know what I'm looking for. Great moments are worth the effort. Great nights are worth more, but I find sustainability rare without honesty. Sounds easy, but I often wonder how honest I am with myself, so how can I ask that with another.

I would love to meet a man who questions himself and isn't afraid of the answer. A guy who is willing to see the reality in every situation and say yes or no to it. And a guy who understands that change is constant, and we always need to be in check with it.

And more than anything, I need someone who understands that I am constantly doing just that. I examine my life constantly. But its so much easier to do with an understanding partner.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a writer and an educator. Education isn't the best deal in town these days, so I'm looking to expand.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am so embarrassed about the fact that I sleep with my smart phone and can't wake up without my computer. But it's true. Other than that it's pets and family. The order of those varies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think too much. Worry about the world. I want to fix everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully downtown hanging with friends who make the world go away.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know that I have a higher purpose in this life, even though I'm not a religious person, and searching for that has made me leave relationships that others would have settled for.
You should message me if
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You think you have an honest thing to offer.