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simkinthefool

23 / M / gay / Single

Wayzata, Minnesota

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
—
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

Well, hello there! Name's Erik and I've never been too good at self-summarizing, but here goes. I'm a twenty-one-year-old guy with an addiction to gaming and sci-fi/fantasy. I'm a quiet-listener-type person and I'm a bit too reserved, I guess (but I'm working on that). Most of my time is spent juggling my job and my schooling. I live with my grandmother (I'm sure that wins me some serious cool points, eh?) although you can hardly tell, since I'm practically never home. No pets, unfortunately. Maybe later.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently I'm slaving away at my local Noodles & Company to pay my bills, as I take a shot at a music program at my community college. Not very glamorous, I know, but it works. Hoping to find a crew to hang out with, maybe play some D&D or engage in some equally nerdy activity.

I’m really good at

Apparently I'm a good D&D player. I'm sure that will take me far in life.

I'm a decent baritone singer, or so I hear. I'm also fairly good at keeping a nice philosophical conversation going. As if that wasn't enough, I make smoothies.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm quite thin, and not for want of food. People tell me that I have nice eyes, as well. People usually notice me engaging in some silly and/or nerdy activity at any time of day, occasionally even while working.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: The Darksword Trilogy, The Hitchhiker's Guide series, The Screwtape Letters, The Forever War, the Harry Potter books (particularly the last couple), Messy Spirituality, If Grace Is True, Dangerous Wonder, and the AD&D 2nd Edition Player's Handbook (a strange pick, to be sure), to list a few.

Movies: Lots. Any Monty Python film, the two Harry Potter films I've seen, Iron Man, The Dark Knight, Return of the Jedi, Somewhere in Time, Advent Children, The Incredibles, and many more.

Music: Practically anything's good. Anything by Hans Zimmer or John Williams, Rammstein, Metallica, Garbage, Elton John, Meat Loaf, Disturbed, Queen, almost anything from the 80's, Maurice Durufle's Requiem, and the ten million other things I'll remember in a few minutes.

The six things I could never do without

My family and friends, music, time to think, the internet, biological necessities, and the occasional cupcake.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, unfortunately.

You should message me if

If you got this far, you should consider saying hello.

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