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29 F Stanford, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
English, Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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People usually think I'm smart. I'd like to think of myself as a clumsy big child who likes to argue.

I feel quite at home in both China and the US. I've also lived in Hong Kong and Europe.

I like exploring cute restaurants, coffee shops, bookstores, theaters, museums, interesting people, my potentials and limits... I get mad when people go to karaoke without me.

I basically watch movies for a living.

At the moment, I'm only interested in meeting girls (preferably also Asian) for casual dating or long-term relationships.

I am kinky. I identify mostly as a submissive but I'd also like to explore my dominant side. I'm in a very committed relationship with a man whom I call "Daddy." If you become my girlfriend, I hope you are open to the three of us being together or at least accept him as a large part of my life. I can be as vanilla or kinky as you feel comfortable with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be happy and achieve something!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a friend, encouraging people, making myself look like a local in unfamiliiar places, appearing confident, writing papers and making presentations (well, I wish), and ahh, singing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I honestly don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors/intellectuals/academics: Walter Benjamin, Michel Foucault, Oscar Wilde, George Orwell, Milan Kundera, 鲁迅, 梁文道

Directors: Agnes Varda, Jean-luc Godard, Ingmar Bergman, Rainer Fassbinder, 孙瑜 (Sun Yu), 贾樟柯 (Jia Zhangke)

Movies: Leon: The Professional, The Shawshank Redemption, Forrest Gump, Die Hard 3, When Harry met Sally, Le fabuleux destin d'Amélie Poulain, Brokeback Mountain, Secretary, 你那边几点? (What Time is it There?), 春风沉醉的晚上(Spring Fever), Chinese leftist films from the 1930s

Shows: Friends, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones

Music: Leonard Cohen, Adele, Lana del Rey, Heart, Lady Gaga

Food: brunch, eggs, avocado, tofu, Kobe beef, 小笼包, 煎饼
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Glasses, lip balm, coffee, movies, books, the internet, sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My dissertation and my boyfriend
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Callling my parents in China or trying to avoid Friday night traffic
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've peed in swimming pools... more than once...
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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- you are curious about dating a couple
- curious about BDSM