Since I have had a lot of experience with online dating, I have found that dating is not just the science of making a list of what you want or don't want, it is a journey to find the person that makes you smile inside. Dating and meeting shouldn't be tainted by being so serious, and bringing a bad past into the future. It suppose to be fun and exciting with no pressure or expectations.
People in my age group or older will definitely have a past. We will all have things in our past we are proud of, and not proud of. I believe in getting to know someone, but I don't think digging up 30 years of a person's past is relevant on a date. Yes there are some important things to know about someone, but not every detail of their past. This is not only rude, but an invasion of their privacy for most issues.
I am looking for uncomplicated. It's a simple concept, and doesn't require a lot of work. It's been said that something worth having is worth working hard for, that's great for careers or business, but for relationships, it should come easy.
I think people need to be happy with themselves first, before dating. There are to many insecure and dependent people dying to rush in to a relationship, because they are looking for someone to make them happy. That is a recipe for a vicious cycle of dead end relationships.
Good luck on your search, and please by all means, if your simple, uncomplicated, and you actually have the time to meet, contact me. I'm not in to endless messages. If you want to meet, let's meet, if not then let's not waste each others time.
I wear boots and wranglers (With class not hillbilly ok?)
I listen to country and rock
I like movies (including scary but can't stand unrealistic movies)
I have a home and a good job
I play guitar and sing
I am down to earth
My pet peeves:
Immaturity in adults our age
Living in a fantasy not reality
Acting like a 18 year old when your 40
P.S. If we happen to meet, don't take it personal if we end up as just friends. Attraction and chemistry has to be there, and it doesn't happen on every meet.This is the nature of the beast when it comes to online dating.
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