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36 F Palo Alto, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Midwest-raised, athletic, family-oriented girl looking to meet her match.

While I can't tell you exactly who my match is, I do know that they're a genuinely good person - someone that is passionate, driven, kind, loving, and a strong committed partner. Someone that wants to find that real, fireworks-like connection with their soulmate.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at a cool tech company - having the chance to help people discover, and develop into, the best versions of themselves.
I’m really good at
-Being active (love love love exercising!)
-Living a healthy and balanced lifestyle
-Getting outdoors and into sunshine & nature whenever I can
-Slowing down to appreciate the simple things in life
-Getting my 8/9 hrs of sleep a night
-Waking up early - I'm a morning person!
-Being creative & domestic - drawing, decorating, cooking, baking intense chocolate desserts
-Finding the perfect music for the moment
-Appreciating authenticity and goodness in others
-Spending way too much $ at Whole Foods
The first things people usually notice about me
My height, especially if I'm wearing heels
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Tartine cookbook - lots of yummy recipes. A biography on Alice Waters and the start of Chez Panisse. Dean K's Ultramarathon Man: Confessions of an All-Night Runner. Also, Quiet - a really interesting read on the power of introverts.

Beginners, Catch & Release, Black Swan, Donnie Darko, 2 Days in Paris, Secretary, Fight Club, Broken English, Jane Eyre, American Beauty, Y Tu Mama Tambien, New Girl, Girls, Lola Versus...

Alt-j, XX, Grandaddy, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Red House Painters, Animal Collective, Bon Iver, The National, Iron & Wine, Jonsi, Pygmy Lush, Rural Alberta Advantage, Sufjan Stevens....

Healthy organic, pb&js, hole-in-the-walls & 4 star dining, and oh....decadent chocolate desserts :)
The six things I could never do without
1. Tall trees, fresh air & sunshine
2. My family and close friends
3. 'Me' time for reflection & right-brained creative endeavors
4. A beautiful and relaxing home environment
5. Sleep - love it!
6. Things that inspire me - art, music, ppl, nature, ideas, projects, etc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-My baking bucket list
-My personal mission statement, and how I'll measure the 'success' of my life
-How I'm one of the only people I know who actually enjoys waking up early
-Why finding my soulmate is so difficult!:)
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe out for a drink and great conversation with a friend. Or maybe at a gallery or show in the city. Or maybe just at home, relaxing after the week - trying a new recipe, curled up on the couch watching a movie/sketching, listening to music/reading a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
During the week I'm pretty go-go. On weekends, I love taking things slower, having down time to restore/rebalance, not having much of a schedule and really appreciating the simple things

Oh, and I'm an INFJ
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 31–46
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
-You're creative and want to explore museums, galleries, shows, or new places with me
-You're holding out to meet someone that really "gets you," that you "get them" and that life slows down when you're together.
-You're into being healthy and active and wont mind being dragged on long hikes and after-dinner walks
-You're a man, but sensitive, caring and a giver
-You're a well adjusted, independent, healthy person ready to have a long term committed loving relationship
-You're passionate, driven & accomplished in your career, but enjoy remembering what its all about