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40 F Spokane, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:32pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English, Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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This man I'm waiting for, whoever he may be.. wherever he may be, truly has my heart. I've learned to protect it for both him and myself. I realize this is a "dating site" but that does not mean I will date everyone or just anyone in this process to find him. I will explore what feels right until I discover what I know is right. This is my effort to put myself out there so I may be found. :)

"but I love your feet only because they
walked upon the earth and upon the
wind and upon the waters,
until they found me." -Neruda

I'm a bit dynamic. I'm a passionate, hopeless, romantic who still believes in true love- I need simple. No games. No drama. And Fun! I need to be drawn to a guy. I can't force something to happen that's not meant to be. I'm looking for everlasting- Not looking for a fling. I believe starting as friends (with a romantic interest) is a great concept.

I do have children- (and they do have an amazing dad). My children are my priority, however I do have a responsibility of keeping their mom happy, as well. :) I have learned a few things along this journey... I don't have a shopping list. What feels right- is right. But I do deserve a chivalrous man. One who's honest, genuine, affectionate and kind. I deeply crave someone to take me out of my comfort zone... Someone who makes me feel desirable, sexy and feminine. I also seek someone who's loyal, determined, and has an understanding of himself... I'm fiesty, sarcastic, silly and witty. I'm a flirt. I often times lack a filter, so he should probably have a sense of humor, as well. :) I'm active- but I certainly love to be lazy too. I don't have to be entertained 24/7.

A little insight. .. I do need challenged. I'd be better drawn to someone who's stronger than me; emotionally, mentally (logically) and physically...) Working hands, a genuine smile and honest eyes reveal character. A man of his word will capture my heart - a man untrue to his word will lose me in a heartbeat.

I love music (I can't go anywhere without my ipod), I enjoy gardening, driving over the speed limit (road trips!!!), hiking, camping, movies and poetry. I run (and hit a speed bag) for therapy. I love to golf and sing even though I'm good at neither. :). I love jeans and barefoot- tangled on the couch- sort of days, I prefer sun to snow and I love the rain... I pray with my kids.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Good question :) first and foremost I'm a mom.
I'm a full time MSW grad student - second year. I intern as a substance abuse counselor (partime) and I substitute teach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Best left to discover.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes and hair.
Oh. When I wear heels. I'm usually the tallest person in the room. That gets noticed on occasion too. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I havent discovered a better book than East of Eden by John Steinbeck. To Kill a Mocking Bird by Harper Lee comes close second.

I love music- I listen to pretty much anything and everything. From Clutch to Amos Lee... (I do however cringe at Neil Diamond. Ugh.) Music is always on and always loud. And if I can imagine myself at a live show with you- you're in!

I prefer movies to tv. (Although I am a fan of walking dead and how I met your mother)

Movies: anything with Denzel... man on fire was brilliant! Movies with purpose... Crash... the thin red line... 300... And of course zombieland ;). Anything that makes me laugh HARD. ... pineapple express.. hot rod.. Change up... step brothers... Snatch!

And food? I love good food... Tai food is one of my favs... Not much of a drinker... Don't know much about wine-
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
Lip gloss
Flip flops
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids. Imma daydreamer... So today? Tomorrow? the next 30 years?
And yes. I will admit... "Where is this guy who's gonna steal my breath and stop my heart?" (or stop my breath and steal my heart)....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Meant to remain private, right? ;) haha

* I talk to myself when I'm alone.
* I put the egg shells back into the carton.
* when alone I will grill a Ribeye, pour a glass of wine (OK. So i drink it. I just don't care to swirl it, smell it, or swish it.. Or pretend to know about the marriage between two wineries....) and I will eat nothing else.
* I could easily go thru an entire bag of English muffins (frozen waffles.. Bread....) just to get the crisp just right.
You should message me if
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If you have the guts ;)