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simplify_11

57 / F / Straight / Single

Fort Worth, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
Feb 27, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
If you are serious about finding someone on this site, start with honesty. Put up-to date photos on your profile and don't "fudge" your age. Isn't it better to be up front now instead of having to eat crow later?

Remember: Any new relationship will bring changes to our lives. When change is upon us, we should open our eyes wider with amazement and enthusiasm; we should extend our arms farther, and embrace the world around us. Change…let it jolt you, push and pull you. Let it challenge you. Know in your heart that change is what gives you the chance to be yourself and the opportunity to make your life everything you want it to be.

About Me:

I am INQUISITIVE. Who, What, When, Where, Why, How? All these words are in my vocabulary daily. The world is waiting to be explored.

I am CREATIVE. To be creative you need to challenge your own assumptions and look at things from a fresh angle. You need to break out of conventional thinking and think "outside the box".

My motto is SIMPLIFY. The lesson in all of this is that we really don’t “need” a lot of the things we think we do and lessening those things can be a huge step toward seeing with more clarity and focusing on what is really important. There is a difference between needs and wants.

I am ADVENTUROUS. I have a bucket list that seems to get longer and longer. Life is short and there are so many things to see and do.
My new hobby is geocaching....awesome adventure! I rarely go anywhere without turning every stone. I have found some pretty interesting places and things. BTW, what are the qualifications for becoming a Texan? Someone told me that I wouldn't be a "True Texan" until I change the area code on my cell. "Oh, the places you can go. You're on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go." - Dr. Seuss

I am HONEST and LOYAL. I want to be in a relationship that is built on trust. You won't have to worry who I am with or what I am doing. I don't want to worry about you either. Either we want to be together or we don't. Let's not play games.

I am INDEPENDENT. I can take out the garbage as easily as you can. I know how to change a light bulb and fix the whatchamacallit on the thingamajig. I know how to back up a trailer and drive a five speed. I always seek to learn new things.

I like to LAUGH. I like to find joy and laughter in all things. Someone told me in the past that I was "sawed off" because I am short. I still smile about that one. Okay...you had to be there....

I am POSITIVE. It is easy to be happy if you always look at the brighter side of things. Don't bring me down. I don't like negative attitudes. There is something good in everyone and everything. I refuse to dwell on the mistakes or disappointments that are sometimes a part of life; instead I have learned to make things better. I don't dwell on things of the past.

I am OPTIMISTIC. I am energetic and positive about the things I do, and always hope for the best. I believe in myself at all times and in all aspects of my life. One day, before I know it or least expect it, those wonderful dreams I have believed in all my life, will come true.

I REFUSE to be unhappy; I am cheerful instead. I refuse the let my troubles multiply; I just take them one by one. I organize my time; I keep my life simple. I refuse to complain about things. I have learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances.

I am NOT Cinderella, Snow White or Sleeping Beauty. I do not have a Fairy Godmother and I don't click my heels together to make wishes come true. I am not a Diva or a Goddess. I am just ME.

About YOU: I wanted to put "dreamy" as the color of eyes but that wasn't a choice. I want to find the man who calls me beautiful instead of hot, who will lie under the stars and listen to my heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch me sleep... I will wait for the man who kisses my forehead, who wants to show me off to the world when I am in sweats, who holds my hand in front of his friends, who thinks I'm just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding me of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have me.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her'.

Family should be a important part of your life. I only smoke when I am on fire and don't like to be around smokers. I have my finances in order and you should, too. Of course, some things don't need to be advertised here, so we can talk abut those later.
What I’m doing with my life
We can't live our lives backwards. I wake up each morning ready and excited to face the new day. I will have my eyes wide open for the wonder and enjoyment of what is to come. I am alone but I am not lonely. An adventure is waiting around every corner and boredom is not in my vocabulary.
I’m really good at
being spontaneous.
The first things people usually notice about me
is my smile and my positive outlook on life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In the case of good books, the point is not to see how many of them you can get through, but how many can get through to you. : )

Favorites: Exploration, Photography, Geocaching, People Watching and Small town fairs. I have two left feet and can't dance. (I dance like Elaine on Seinfeld). I enjoy the great outdoors: walking, fishing, and camping. I would like to get involved with bicycling and exercise, neither a strong point for me. My favorite color is purple. My favorite types of food are Mexican and Sushi. I don't watch a lot of television but prefer being outside doing something. I like Science Fiction, Westerns, Dramas and "chick flicks".
The six things I could never do without
Jesus, my Bible, my family, my job, a vehicle and my camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where is the man of my dreams...............

I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance...A church filled with flowers, friends and beautiful music... I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for...He said one that would make me his wife. As he gently held me in his arms he said to me, "You are like a rare flower that everyone wants. If I can have you, you'll bloom all year round for I will water you with love for eternity."
On a typical Friday night I am
Anticipating my adventure for the weekend. I have discovered the hobby of geocaching!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Private means private. Some topics are not for public knowledge.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 54–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
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