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67 F Fallbrook, CA

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am seriously planning to retire in 2014, and considering the possibility of relocating to Northern CA. I am widowed, intelligent, articulate, and educated. I am communicative, and a good listener. I enjoy interesting conversations. According to people who know me, I am friendly, caring, and down-to-earth. They say that I am a person of "unquestionable integrity." They say that I have a "heart of gold," and that I am a compassionate person, and they like my sense of humor. I love life and most people. Politically, I am a centrist. I come from very humble beginnings. I am proactive, a hard worker, and have many interests. I have been involved in community work most of my life. I enjoy helping those who are less fortunate than I have been.

I love to explore new places. I am not much into big cities and crowded places. I love nature, and enjoy outdoor activities. I like to cook. I also enjoy creating flower designs, and have been involved in several construction projects, which I enjoyed very much. I enjoy most music. I am out of practice, but I also enjoy dancing.


I am searching for that elusive "Special Man," who would like to take the remaining one third of life's journey with me. I view life as a journey, not a destination. Whether one enjoys life's many adventures, depends on the person's attitude, and on the choices one makes in life. I do not expect perfection, as I am not perfect.

I am in search of my last, best, and the GREATEST love of my life. He is an achiever, (he is passionate about life, passionate about something). He is intelligent (not necessarily measured by college degrees obtained). He is friendly, communicative, a good listener, he is adventurous, spontaneous, affectionate, loving, has a good sense of humor, is loyal, and is ready for a LTR. If you like to cook and are into outdoor activities, it is a PLUS. There must be the right chemistry between us. I do not limit my definition of "chemistry" to physical attraction. It includes mutual respect, liking each other, personality, and character traits.

I am free-spirited, playful, kind, loyal, and supportive of my partner. I am affectionate but not clingy. I am ready for a loving, monogamous, committed, long-term relationship, with the right man. I do not play head games. I enjoy some sports, like to play pool, board games, hiking, etc. IT IS WHO I AM WITH THAT WOULD CREATE MEMORABLE MOMENTS, NOT THE ACTIVITY. I must have humor in my life. I am into a healthy lifestyle. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times per week, and prefer a healthy diet.

ABOUT MY PHOTOS: Taken between July, 2012, and December, 2012. My main photo was taken September 2013, to submit with an article that I was asked to write for a Newsletter, on a legal issue.
What I’m doing with my life
I "retired" from state employment. Currently, I do consulting work. After my last big project, I plan to retire and to relocate to Northern CA, .... unless I find a reason to stay in Southern CA.

I love nature and enjoy the outdoors, with walks on the beach being my favorite outdoor activity. I like to play pool, like to cook, but I also like to occasionally go out to enjoy fine dining, or to discover that quaint "hole-in-the wall" cozy restaurant with a reputation, among locals, for excellent food. Family and friends are important to me, but if I were in a relationship, my man and I will be NUMBER ONE for each other.
I’m really good at
Writing, expressing my thoughts, ideas, and feelings. I am also good at helping others with their problems. I am a good listener and solution-oriented. I love to cook. I prefer to entertain small groups of friends and family.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people comment on my friendliness, some notice my leadership abilities. I am often asked to help friends with their problems.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I enjoy reading books that tell a story, from history books that tell me about people, different cultures, how different governments evolved, and how geographic boundaries changed over the centuries, books about natural healing, stories of human courage, and of individuals who overcame great adversities, such as Helen Keller, to cook books. Among my favorite movies are: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Gone with the Wind, My Fair Lady, Casa Blanca, The Notebook, Pretty Woman, to Kill a Mockingbird, Fools Rush In, most of Harrison Ford movies, and movies with a favorite actress or actor, such as Meryl Streep, Julia Roberts, Tom Hanks, etc. I like action movies, romantic comedies,... the list is long. I love most music, except rap and hard rock. I am a romantic, enjoy romantic music, classical, soft Jazz, soft rock, Salsa, and Mariachi music. I enjoy live theater, comedy shows, 60 Minutes, CNN, MSNBC, etc. I like most food. It is difficult to select a favorite. I favor Mexican, if properly prepared, Thai, French, Japanese, Some Brazilian dishes, and Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Food, water, air, my survival skills, fairly good health, my ability to use my mind. (I noticed the question asked to name "THINGS," not people).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to do during my "Golden Years." I often think about our country, the economy, and how I could make a positive difference in the life of those less fortunate than I have been. I like to write. I plan to write a couple of books.
On a typical Friday night I am
Some Fridays, I might be getting ready to go out for dinner and/or a movie. I also enjoy quiet evenings at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It would not be private if I were willing to admit here.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 63–75
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Most of what I said in my profile resonates with you.
Please respect the age range preference that I indicated, above, 63-75. While I do not measure intelligence by the college degrees a man has obtained, I am attracted to intelligent men who are articulate and who are communicative.