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68 Manteca, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 64-74
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Hispanic / Latin
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Willing to relocate for the right man, and to the right location. I lived in the S. F. Bay Area for 22 years. Getting my home ready to place on the market. As of August 1, 2015, I have begun to implement my relocation plan from San Diego to Northern CA. I am in the process of moving to Northern CA. However, I have not decided on the place where I would want to spend the rest of my life (retirement place). I will be staying, temporarily, in Manteca, CA, while I continue to search for my ideal retirement place.

I am a Meyer Briggs Personality type: INFJ

I am searching for my last and best love, for quality companionship. I am widowed. People say that I am intelligent. I am educated, communicative, and a good listener. I enjoy interesting conversations. According to people who know me, I am friendly, caring, and down-to-earth. They say that I am a person of "unquestionable integrity." I have a sense of humor. I am affectionate and a compassionate person. Politically, I am a centrist. I am turned off by persons with extreme political or religious views. I am spiritual but do not belong to any organized religious group. I come from very humble beginnings. I am a hard worker, and have many interests. Most of my life I have been involved in community work, and helping others.

I love to explore new places. I love nature, and enjoy outdoor activities. There is something magical about the ocean breeze, the smell of pine trees, the splendor of bright colors of flowers in bloom, watching birds build a nest. I like to cook, enjoy creating flower designs, and have been involved in several construction projects, which I enjoyed very much. I enjoy most music. I enjoy dancing, concerts, theater, movies, entertaining small groups, and play pool.
This is my wish list. If I find someone with some of the qualities I desire in my future partner, I will consider myself very lucky. I am searching for that elusive "Special Man," who would like to take the remaining one third of life's journey with me, not necessarily seeking to get married, again, but I want a long-term committed monogamous relationship. I view life as a journey, not a destination. I do not expect perfection, as I am not perfect.
I am in search of my last, best, and the GREATEST love of my life. He is an achiever. He is intelligent (not necessarily measured by college degrees obtained). He is friendly, communicative, a good listener, he is adventurous, spontaneous, affectionate, loving, has a good sense of humor, is loyal, and is ready for a LTR. There must be the right chemistry between us. I do not limit my definition of "chemistry" to physical attraction. It includes mutual respect, liking each other, personality, and character traits.
I am affectionate but not clingy. I enjoy some sports, like to play pool, board games, hiking, etc. IT IS WHO I AM WITH THAT WOULD CREATE MEMORABLE MOMENTS, NOT THE ACTIVITY. I must have humor in my life. I am into a healthy lifestyle. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times per week, and prefer a healthy diet.
ABOUT MY PHOTOS: Taken between 7/12, 9/13, and 4/15.
What I’m doing with my life
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I "retired" from state employment. Currently, I do consulting work. I plan to retire soon.

I love nature and enjoy the outdoors, with walks on the beach being my favorite outdoor activity. I like to play pool, like to cook, but I also like to occasionally go out to enjoy fine dining, or to discover that quaint "hole-in-the wall" cozy restaurant with a reputation, among locals, for excellent food. Family and friends are important to me, but if I were in a relationship, my man and I will be NUMBER ONE for each other.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Detecting scammers and impostors, (have identified well over 40 scammers and five impostors), I write well, I am good at expressing my thoughts, ideas, and feelings. I am also good at helping others with their problems. I am a good listener and solution-oriented. I love to cook. I prefer to entertain small groups of friends and family.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most people comment on my friendliness, some notice my leadership abilities. I am often asked to help friends with their problems.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy reading books that tell a story, from history books that tell me about people, different cultures, how different governments evolved, and how geographic boundaries changed over the centuries, books about natural healing, stories of human courage, and of individuals who overcame great adversities, such as Helen Keller, to cook books. Among my favorite movies are: The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Gone with the Wind, My Fair Lady, Casa Blanca, The Notebook, Pretty Woman, to Kill a Mockingbird, Fools Rush In, most of Harrison Ford movies, and movies with a favorite actress or actor, such as Meryl Streep, Julia Roberts, Tom Hanks, etc. I like action movies, romantic comedies,... the list is long. I love most music, except rap and hard rock. I am a romantic, enjoy romantic music, classical, soft Jazz, soft rock, Salsa, and Mariachi music. I enjoy live theater, comedy shows, 60 Minutes, CNN, MSNBC, etc. I like most food. It is difficult to select a favorite. I favor Mexican, if properly prepared, Thai, French, Japanese, Some Brazilian dishes, and Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, air, my survival skills, fairly good health, my ability to use my mind. (I noticed the question asked to name "THINGS," not people).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to do during my "Golden Years." I often think about our country, the economy, and how I could make a positive difference in the lives of those less fortunate than I have been. I like to write. I plan to write a couple of books.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Some Fridays, I might be getting ready to go out for dinner and/or a movie. I also enjoy quiet evenings at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I first began online dating, I was not aware of the fact that most dating sites are plagued with SCAMMERS. I exchanged e-mail communications with three scammers for almost one month before I realized they were scammers. When I realized they were scammers, it became a challenge to play along until they would ask me for money. I GOT THE LAST LAUGH.
You should message me if
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Most of what I said in my profile resonates with you.
Please respect the age range preference that I indicated, above, 64-74. (If your age is under 64, most likely we are not compatible). While I do not measure intelligence by the college degrees a man has obtained, I am attracted to intelligent men who are articulate and who are communicative. I am attracted to men who are affectionate.