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30 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:23pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Catalan (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Mellow, compassionate, sensitive, and sweet.
Friends say I'm easy to be around with.
Prone to day dreaming.
An incurable romantic.
I like the gritty, grounded, eccentric, and soulful.
My cure for the blues is to hop on a train and explore.
I like people who have a sense of compassion for all, not just some.
I have a low tolerence for routine in relationships
Turn-offs: jealousy / ostentatiousness
Natural scents > perfumes/colognes
I do not like to brunch, especially brunches in New York.
What I’m doing with my life
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Life is goooooood! I love to spend time with family and friends, kickboxing, taking yoga classes, music and art events. I am interested in anything urban planning related. You will probably see me dancing hours on end at a techno event. I drink, cook, dance, dine out, read, volunteer, and work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not getting lost
The first things people usually notice about me
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my wild mane
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books- on mythology, urban studies, history, sci-fi, and anything a friend would recommend.
New York, Chicago, Los Angeles by Janet Abu-Lughod.
The Power Broker by Robert A. Caro.
Henry James, Jane Austen
The Ethical Slut and Sex At Dawn
Escape from Freedom by Erich Fromm

movies- Groundhog Day, Requiem for a Dream, Office Space, American Psycho, Run Lola Run. Any Parker Posey or Daniel Day Lewis film. I love watching comedies, action, sci-fi, indie and foreign films

tv shows- A few shows I've watched before and love are Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Arrested Development, Family Guy, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The League, The Inbetweeners, Workaholics, Downton Abbey, Parks and Recreation, Happy Endings, Poirot.

TED talks

podcast: Dan Savage, RA Exchange

music- Everything. Outer spacey. Eargasm. Song that started my new year. Currently listening to Heart, Fela Kuti, Arpanet, J.Phlip, DJ Tennis, Tale of Us, Maya Jane Coles, Seth Troxler, Steve Bug, Dixon, Ellen Allien, George McCrae, Plastikman, Wu-Tang, Rjd2, Otis Redding, Kraftwerk, Crystal Castles, Joan Manuel Serrat, Jamiroquai, Land of Talk, Arcade Fire, Neil Young, The Toxic Avenger, Hall and Oates, Bill Withers, Radiohead, Calle 13, A Tribe Called Quest, Buzzcocks, Buena Vista Social Club, Siouxsie and the Banshees.

food- Peruvian, Middle Eastern, Indian, Mexican, and French cuisine.

sweets- strawberry rhubarb tart, nunu salted caramel chocolates
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
8 Not in ranking order...
smiling faces
tea tree oil
techno/house music
ETY earplugs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
food, my next adventure, sounds, sounds and more sounds
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
de-stressing, dressing up, dressing down, trying out costumes, gallivanting around town
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1. Jane is not my name
2. First CD purchase: Foxy Brown's Ill Na Na
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
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you are a femme.

No couples.