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  • Ages 22-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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5' 6" (1.68m)
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Working on University
Has kid(s) and might want more
My self-summary
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For starters, my name is Tom. I'm a typical Irish/Italian in Jersey. I have a 7 year old little girl and share custody with my ex. I'm witty, fairly clever, and generally a fun person to be around. I go out on occasion but I tend to stay in. I spent 4 years as an Assaultman in the Marines and deployed to Iraq twice. I haven't been able to practice in a while but I enjoy brazilian jiu jitsu and I do a little weight lifting and cardio every day to stay fit. I like camping, hiking and I'm slowly breaking into some suburban homesteading.
What I’m doing with my life
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Got out of the Marines in 2009 and now I'm a firefighter and EMT still looking for a career position. I have an associate's in business and I'm slowly chipping away at a bachelor's
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not giving up on the Jets...I've grown a tolerance to disappointment
The first things people usually notice about me
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For better or worse, I say exactly what's on my mind
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read many books. Not against it, I just never get around to it. I do think the Hunger Games books were much better than the movies but I still love me some JLaw. American Sniper was great on both also.
I can honestly appreciate almost any movie/genre if it's done well.
Tv...Rescue Me and Chicago Fire (obviously), Dexter, Spartacus, NCIS, Homeland, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, Hart of Dixie (yup), Scrubs, Sleepy Hollow and Sons
I primarily listen to country, but I like rock and alternative also...I miss the 90's.
You can never go wrong with Italian or Chinese; my diet mainly consists of beef, pasta, poultry and potatoes all in their various forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there is no such thing as a typical friday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit that I keep a lot of things to myself ;) but I do open up eventually
You should message me if
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...if you're cool with a single dad that runs into burning buildings for fun