I am always either honest or silent.I am hard to tempt out of my shell to begin with,and believe aggressive pursuit of women disqualifies one from deserving them... on-the-make guys always struck me as poor role models...and it's important to me not to be a pest.So, I am still single.
I'm not too sure the "personality awards" here are accurate,I learn more of use from reading people's profiles.I'm glad filters now operate on settings like smoking but was mad indeed that they took away WTF Reports!
Likewise,MatchMe tests seem unreliable.I've gone from 25 to 75 % on the same person's MatchMe based on honest answers to a different shuffle of questions.I hope to do some serious tests here for philosophical and sensual compatibility (I've done some more frivolous tests for practice).The philosophical compatibility test has now gone live but the scoring may still need serious work (my first with three variables).
I urge you to read my leadoff post in the "Tell us Your Mandates!" thread of the "General" Forum.
Generally,"matching" type websites come in two flavors.
Flavor A:you lead with your public personality and sexuality is dealt with only as an eventual private detail (after all,no relationship begins with sex and no first date with a stranger who might possibly become your life partner should assume that sex will ensue).
Flavor B:you lead with your sexual thoughts,checking off your BDSM role type and fetishes from A to Z before you even think about whether you'd be comfortable sharing a breakfast table with your "match" for a day let alone a lifetime.
Finding your interlocking piece in the jigsaw-puzzle of humanity is more complex than just a few facets,and the process of a couple lowering their sights from the stars until they're looking into each other's eyes and smiling should be as informed as possible.
I won't deny that I have a wide variety of fetish interests that I'd like to explore with someone who shared them;things that I would not do myself but would like to find a woman open to doing with and for a thoroughly responsible and appreciative partner.I want a woman who is adventurous and not self-destructive.We should feel safer with each other than apart.
But of course these interests do not define me and her interest in them does not suffice to measure her suitability as a potential mother of my children and most intimate companion henceforward.Two whole people must connect,and on a level that overcomes any persnickety preconceptions that might stand in their way.
I hope it happens here.
P.S. I wrote THE WORLD'S EASIEST OKCUPID TEST and can't believe it hasn't been more popular.Go on...get a world record score!
Det blir vanskelig om jeg kan ikke bruke "æ","ø","å" men no tror jeg jeg har det ned.
Jeg er halv-norsk men har blit i Amerika hele liven min.
Jeg skal fors0ke aa omvide dette senere.
I am sincere, determined, and visionary