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singerspa

58 / F / Straight / Single

Mountain View, California

Her Details

Last Online
May 10
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for a fun dating relationship that could possibly develop into something more. I am a down-to-earth, honest person who is easy to get along with. I am an engineer, by training and temperament, so I'm intelligent, logical, straightforward and like to solve problems. I'm also what you might not expect from an engineer: passionate, funny, and affectionate. I'm kind and considerate. I enjoy helping people, spending time with children and writing short declarative sentences. I am naturally cheerful and optimistic, have a good sense of humor and laugh easily.

I greatly enjoy learning new things and figuring out how things work. I'm not usually an early adopter, but I drive an electric car and have solar panels on my roof. I still have a 20th-century phone, though.

Although domestic activities are not my forte, I make fantastic plum jam with the plums from my tree.

I am politically liberal. I am responsible and financially secure. I have a 25-year-old son who lives in Boston.
What I’m doing with my life
I retired from high tech in 2000 after a 20-year career in software engineering management. Now I have a part-time "retirement job" that I do mostly at home. I also sing, do volunteer work, play duplicate bridge, attend a pool aerobics class, and do English Country Dancing. I like to sing jazz standards and blues, and do so whenever the opportunity arises. I also sing Early and Baroque choral music with a local chamber choir. I love to travel, both domestically and abroad. My favorite trips are those that give me a chance to see how people live their daily lives in other cultures.
I’m really good at
singing, taking care of people, organizing activities, managing groups and communicating.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told I have a great smile. And I love to laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a big fan of Craig Ferguson on the Late, Late Show. I'm also a big fan of Stephen Sondheim and all his musicals, especially "A Little Night Music". It's hard to choose one favorite movie or book. I love "Shakespeare in Love" and "Independence Day". I like to read historical fiction. I didn't pay much attention to history growing up and now I get all my history through novels. I find as I grow older, I'm much more interested in world history than I used to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
One of my favorite things to do is to engage in interesting conversations, maybe over dinner, maybe during a walk through downtown. Recently I started taking ballroom dance lessons. I like to go to the theatre, movies, and concerts. I enjoy nearly all kinds of music performed live, with the possible exception of rap and hiphop. I also like to walk in beautiful places and do English country dancing.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 47–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you're smart, you don't smoke, and you want to go out, have fun, get to know each other, and see what happens!