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54 Rochester, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 31
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am a 53-years-young woman who found herself single again about 4 years ago. My life has been in transition and I'm still a work in progress. I would hope everyone is. If you're not're dead.

A little housekeeping out of the way first. And while I hate starting out with negatives, time has shown me I must. I am very open minded and nonjudgemental when it comes to relationships. I have no problem dating younger than myself, but messages from anyone under 40 simply won't be answered. I have no interest in being the secret of a married man...although if you practice ethical poly, I'm willing to talk. And I don't do one night stands or booty calls.

I am very outgoing, honest to a fault (you'll never have to guess what I'm thinking), passionate about the things that matter, easy-going and spontaneous. People who know me would say I'm incredibly loyal, honest, fun, and caring.

Although my end goal is to find a relationship that is long-term, I am in no hurry. I believe in taking my time. That being said however, I am looking for someone who is committed to actually taking the time to get to know me. Frankly, I'm past the point of serial know...those one time dates that seem great but never leading to a second because there are just so many new shiny things on here.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working in the tax and accounting field. Enjoying my kids and grandkids. Spending time with friends. And all in all, enjoying life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, making lifelong friends, writing, intelligent conversation, and providing words of wisdom to friends that need it
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
My outgoing personality
My love of life
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is a passion for me - country,80's classic rock, hairbands, southern rock, blues...anything but rap thank you

Movies - Dirty Dancing (yeah I know lol), Saving Private Ryan, The Proposal, Pearl Harbor, True Lies, We Were Soldiers Once, Blind Side

Books - Crime and medical mysteries, political/social issue authors, and I couldn't resist "50 Shades of Gray"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids and grandkids (I know that counts as 2)
My phone
Love (in all its forms)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What this new life of mine will look like
When to help a kid who is struggling and when to step back
Will I ever meet that person I really connect with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home watching Netflix
At a friends house for drinks, music and silly fun
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not much on here, but if you ask it's likely I'll answer. I have many things that may be private but not secret.
You should message me if
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You're an assertive, confident man who is honest, affectionate and is looking for a fun, honest and open caring woman. Are you willing to help me write the next chapter in the story called my life?