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39 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:08pm
White, Other
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Strictly vegan
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Banking / Finance
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is good on my own, but it's always better to have someone to share it with :)

I'm a mom of two teenagers, only one still lives at home, and only half the time. And since he's 15, he hardly spends any time with me even when he is home… that leaves room for me to concentrate on meeting someone great.

I could spend the rest of my days never going to a club again and by all accounts lead a pretty boring, normal life which I love. Netflix, hiking, friends, my dog and family is pretty much as wild as it gets. I've travelled lots, and still want to, and I've even done some wild and crazy things I wanted to try like parachuting, river rafting, zip lining, living abroad etc. I liked all of that but it's really not indicative of what my personality is. Those were blips of excitement in an otherwise pretty 'boring' life. Knowing someone is at home waiting for me to return, is exciting enough for me.

I am looking for a relationship where 'conversation' isn't a bad word. I want to be able to be someone's partner and friend. I tend to enjoy discussing things with my partner and I put a lot of value on that. I am not naive, I know relationships are not fairytales, but I would like to meet someone who feels like with kindness, (tactful) honesty and real conversation, most things could be addressed.

Let's see, do I have any deal breakers? I don't subscribe to the idea of tit for tat, so people who seek revenge are not ones I am comfortable around. I don't like explosive personalities but should there be a line crossed, I can hold my own. I also don't eat meat. I don't care if you do as long as you are not constantly going to make fun of me for not eating it. Also, I'm not looking to have any more kids of my own. I love kids, and I'm okay with dating someone with kids, but at my age I'm not looking to have any more of my own.

Lastly, I am not shallow and seek the same in a partner. I am almost 40 and so aware that there is more to life than looks and hair. Yes, it's nice to look at, obviously, but I am looking for a deeper, more meaningful and lasting connection than outward beauty.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I enjoy my free time to it's fullest. I go out with friends, spend time alone, walk my dog, etc... I have started being a lot more purposeful in my decisions, and that has lead to a much more fulfilling life. I don't worry about what other people think ... anymore. It's been liberating.

I also write. A lot. I write birthday cards, blogs, books... I love to write. In fact, I am far superior at expressing my thoughts and ideas in writing than if put on the spot in person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Really good at? Hmmm... I don't know. I can spell pretty good. I can even manage to use big words sometimes.
There used to be a time I was okay at playing online poker. Though I haven't played in years so who knows how 'good' I really am now.
And quoting random facts that I once saw in a documentary.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea.
Nobody in their right mind tells you the truth about this... They would probably say my smile or my eyes... but I bet they're looking at my ass.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You know, I've lived in 4 countries, and moved umpteen times. I have learned new languages and embraced new cultures. If nothing else, I adapt to all situations.
Which means there is nothing that I cannot live without... 'Need' is an illusion.

I WANT my kids and my friends around. Sometimes even my family :) but those are not things...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Holistic nutrition - and how much power we have to heal our bodies from within. I would love to get my Registered Holistic Nutritionist diploma and really do something like that for a living. You know, be passionate about my career rather than 'meh' about it - which I currently feel about my current career in taxes. In fact, I spend a lot of time visualizing myself having my own practice, somewhere off the grid. Ahhh... Who doesn't love a daydream?
I also spend quite a bit of time thinking about different documentaries I've watched, especially my favorite by Gary Yourofsky "The Best Speech You Will Ever Hear" , or 'Forks over Knives' - equally awesome.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's a little twisted that they even put this question in here, hmmm...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have actually read my profile. Yes, I can tell if you haven't.
You are a non smoker and a non drug user. Yes, pot is a drug.
You think taking care of yourself is important.
You give a damn about our planetary companions. It doesn't mean you have to be vegetarian or vegan, but you have compassion for all living things and you are not the type of guy who puts salt on a slug, for example 'just for fun'.
You have at some point entertained the idea of just leaving the big city and build a cabin somewhere and living off the land... not that I think that would ever happen, but hey, it is somewhat of a fantasy of mine and I'd like you to be able to at least imagine it.
Also, I love tattooed men, yes. But if your last tattoo made you bounce your rent cheque, please don't call me. I've already met enough guys (yes, plural!) like that and it's frightening. Can you please have your $hit together?