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singlefemale38

39 F Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a single mom of two teens who live with me half the time. I am into being healthy and taking care of myself. Some call me a bit of a hippie. I don't entirely disagree. I usually subscribe to the law of "contrary to public opinion" - I have gone against the grain for most of my life, I can't imagine life any other way.

I'm not sure what to make of this online dating experience. On the one hand, it's a little like window shopping and you get to browse and say 'I'm just looking' if someone bugs you while browsing. On the other hand, there seems to be a lot more truth meeting someone organically than on this site. I realize girls fib as well, but men embellish things they don't need to. If you're bald, be bald. I don't care. But don't hide it with a ball cap so that I am surprised when we meet for the first time. Or if you're 'only' 5'8" don't lie and say you're 6". Again, it's no big deal but I hate that you lied. It starts off rocky when we both embellish things. Lastly, if you smoke, don't say you don't. Quitting smoking for a day does not make you a non smoker.

What else? Hmmm...I don't eat meat. Or eggs or dairy. Call me crazy but yuck. Yes that makes me a vegan. If you're a big meat eater, there may be too much of a gap between us. In fact, if you don't have an 'inner hippie' in you at all, any potential relationship with us might be entirely too much frustration and work. For both of us.

Taking care of myself is important to me and I maintain a healthy lifestyle by my food intake and to a lesser degree, excersise. (I don't go to the gym, but I do try to get outside - especially in the summer) I don't need you to have a six pack, in fact far from it since I don't, but it would be nice if you could walk up the stairs rather than take the elevator and not be out of breath.

I also have 5 tattoos and I cant promise I will not get more. I've been told that some men don't like tattoos and I had better 'put it on my profile' (my tattoos are girly and dainty so I don't see the big deal, but there you have it)

I have had an epiphany about 3 and 1/2 years ago, and how I'd like to live and have made changes accordingly. I am still an accountant by trade, but my personality is more that of a freelance writer (which I also do)

Hmmm... what else? I should also admit that I am not looking for just a pretty face, (though if you are extremely handsome, don't just pass by, say hello for Pete's sake!) I am looking for a cerebral connection as well. I have briefly dated some men in the past, who I have been extremely attracted to physically, but when they spoke, my brain got angry. I'm not looking to do that again. Sure, it can be a fun few weeks, but I would need more than that to remain interested.

If you only send a one liner, which only talks about my physical attributes that you like about me, please know I will not reply so save yourself the one minute effort you put forth in contacting me. I think at this point we all should have a very good idea about what we are looking for in order to have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. I may not be your cup of tea, and you may not be mine. Please don't take that personally.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I enjoy my free time to it's fullest. I go out with friends, spend time alone, go to concerts and eat out. I have started being a lot more purposeful in my decisions, and that has lead to a much more fulfilling life. I don't worry about what other people think ... anymore. It's been liberating.

I also write. A lot. I write birthday cards, blogs, books... I love to write. In fact, I am far superior at expressing my thoughts and ideas in writing than if put on the spot in person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Online poker. Though I haven't played in years so who knows how 'good' I really am now.
And quoting random facts that I once saw in a documentary.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea.
That's because people lie. Nobody in their right mind tells you the truth about this... They would probably say my smile or my eyes... but I bet they're looking at my ass.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
You know, I've lived in 4 countries, and moved umpteen times. I have learned new languages and embraced new cultures. If nothing else, I adapt to all situations.
Which means there is nothing that I cannot live without... 'Need' is an illusion.

I WANT my kids and my friends around. Sometimes even my family :) but those are not things...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Holistic nutrition - and how much power we have to heal our bodies from within.
Documentaries I've watched, especially my favorite by Gary Yourofsky "The Best Speech You Will Ever Hear" - I think about this one a lot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's a little twisted that they even put this question in here, hmmm...
You should message me if
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You have actually read my profile. Yes, I can tell if you haven't.
You are a non smoker and a non drug user. Yes, pot is a drug.
You think taking care of yourself is important.
You give a damn about our planetary companions. It doesn't mean you have to be vegetarian or vegan, but you have compassion for all living things and you are not the type of guy who puts salt on a slug, for example 'just for fun'.
You have at some point entertained the idea of just leaving the big city and build a cabin somewhere and living off the land... not that I think that would ever happen, but hey, it is somewhat of a fantasy of mine and I'd like you to be able to at least imagine it.
Also, I love tattooed men, yes. But if your last tattoo made you bounce your rent cheque, please don't call me. I've already met enough guys (yes, plural!) like that and it's frightening. Can you please have your $hit together?
After we meet, go out and have a good time, you plan on actually calling instead of waiting 3 days like the 'rule book' tells you to. I'm a little rusty when it comes to dating, and I don't know how to play all these 'cat and mouse' games. If I like you, I will tell you. If you like me, you should tell me. I have learned the hard way that this is not how everyone works.