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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44-57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 26, 2013
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I am the mother of one,* and the middle of three sisters. Grew up in the deep south, but moved to Oregon over 20 years ago, so consider this home. I am passionate about my work, and finding someone who is happy with his is important. Doesn't leave a lot of time for long vacations, and I am nowhere near retirement. But if we enjoy what we do, then we are always having fun!

*boy, 18, currently working as an organic farmer in Europe ("WWOOFing"), applying to architecture schools for next fall
What I’m doing with my life
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Work (see above). I either go to the gym or walk every day. I want to play the piano more often than I do, and learn to make bread at home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding humor in most any situation. Keeping my priorities straight. Completing a task. Being happy. My style is casual, but I clean up good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. But it doesn't bother me to be tall. Yes, I wear heels (well, within reason) No, I don't slouch.

Beyond looks, I am reserved, but not shy. Pretty intense, but I know how to let go. I am curious, and not afraid to ask questions. Love to learn about anything new.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy most any type of music--classical (which is what I play), folk rock, blues, reggae, jazz (the real thing).

I read a lot for work, so even though I have a stack of books by my bed, it shifts only ever so slowly. Books I HAVE recently read include The Social Animal (David Brooks), The Pearl (Steinbeck), and Keeping the Love You Find (Harville Hendricks)

Food is good. The fresher and closer to the source the better.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Experiences are more important than things. That said:
time outdoors (I am not a sitter)
music (the liver the better)
my kid (duh)
a cat (have 2 right now; dogs are okay too)
coffee (dark)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My work (see above). Have a small yard that requires just about the right amount of attention. I like to day dream about building a home some day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ummmm . . . on a truly typical Friday night, I am looking to de-stress by exercising and going to bed at a reasonable hour. But I am easily persuaded to forego the reasonable hour in exchange for some good live entertainment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Don't have cable TV, and only miss it in the spring, when March madness and NBA finals roll around (NOW!) I enjoy watching most any sport, actually, but not enough to pay for cable.
You should message me if
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you are not a sitter or a smoker and you like your women tall