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46 Hamilton, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:10am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have recently returned to Hamilton and am looking for someone to explore the area and perhaps eventually settle down with.

I find it very awkward to write about myself; it leaves me feeling egocentric which I am not. So I will add more as time goes by.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to live my life in a way that sets a good example to my two teen aged kids.

I have recently made the commitment to myself to live healthier and get out and do more.

Currently I am feeling a little uncomfortable with my weight and am taking the steps to get to a healthier state for myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
lots of things. mostly I am the best at being me...

I am an awesome cook and my son is pushing me to start writing my own cook book and do an on line cooking show for single men /Dads. So in my spare time I try to organize ideas for that.

I find it very awkward writing about myself at length which is why my profile is so short at the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes?
I'm tallish around 6 foot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I think my favourite book of all time was the Hitchhikers Guild to the Galaxy. I also loved The Hobbit and Lord of the Rings series. I tried getting through the Game of Thrones series but I got into the TV series and put the books aside. From time to time I pick up A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawkings. I also enjoy Arthur C. Clark. Dan Brown and numerous others.

I'm not sure if I should write this here or in the most private area but I am a huge Whovian and have a digital copy of every episode from 1963 til present. I also own all the BSG episodes both old and New.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air and water would be my top two picks...
I guess music
my kids
my reading glasses
I'm drawing a blank I'll edit this one later
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future where I want to be and how I'm going to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home or spending time with my kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be kind of shy from time to time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you'd like to spend time getting to know me, whether it be to hang out as friends or casually date. I think a good strong relationship starts with both people being friends.