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51 Rancho Palos Verdes, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I do NOT authorize any outside parties to use any photos or information on this profile for any reason.

My two favorite activities are hiking in the mountains and surfing. It is my intention to take regular hiking excursions in the mountains and surfing as often as my body will allow...

Some fun facts about me:
I am a writer, I teach Taoist Martial Arts & Kung Fu, Qigong, African Drumming, Meditation... I was a Hollywood actor for about 10 years, I trained with two master Yoruba drummers and one Ifa shaman from Nigeria. I co-founded a Theatre company in Hollywood that is still in business...I've created a modern synthesis of shamanism based on my previous studies with other masters and the "Old Ways" of Europe.

Me drumming with my teacher April 2014

My latest focus is researching and writing books on pre-Christian European spirituality and reintegrating the spiritual wisdom of my pre-Christian ancestors for modern times.

I am a great listener, I enjoy sharing feelings and working cooperatively during the inevitable tensions that arise as two people grow closer together.

I do not feel my age. While I am interested in a long term relationship that may last the rest of my life, I am definitely NOT looking for someone to "grow old" with.

I work from home and can live anywhere in the world as long as there is telephone and internet available. For now, I can't imagine living anywhere but in SoCal...

I am quite comfortable being single. But, I am very open to meeting an amazing woman. If you are intrigued by what you have read..then please drop me a note. I would love to hear from you...


Can I share a pet peeve that I've been running into lately on here? Ladies who require a lengthy introduction email who write nothing in their profile... Anybody see the irony here? You can't be upset with guys who only say "hi there" when you say nothing about who you are and yet show selfies in a bikini... I know, sound obvious but you'd be surprised how often I see this.... Ok I feel better...

And what's the deal with car selfies? Is there some dating profile rule book that says "If you're gonna take a selfie, do it in your car"? Are people sitting at their computer creating their profiles and then saying, "Shoot! I need a pic. I know, I'll put on some nice clothes and then go sit in the car and take a selfie."?
What I’m doing with my life
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Surfing as much as possible and enjoying Southern California Sunshine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
sharing feelings, listening. Working on communication skills.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intensity
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Surfing, mountains, exercise, love-making, freedom, books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
These days... Surfing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If it were private, why would I admit it publicly? Seriously, I don't have any big secrets. What you see is what you get.
You should message me if
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You have an accurate, recent photo of yourself and you are honest about your appearance, age and body type in your profile.

Ladies, I only want to hear from women who ARE interested in meeting me. If after reading my profile, you are not interested, there is no need to respond to my emails. Your silence will act as a friendly "no thank you." But if you ARE interested in further communication, then please do contact me...