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51 Rancho Palos Verdes, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(I'm getting a lot of "likes" and that's great. But, it's meaningless if I don't know who you are since I'm not an upgraded member. If you want to show me you like me, you have to send me a message!)

What do you want?
Freedom? Passion? Safety? Adventure? Stability? Love? Understanding? Truth? Depth? Fun?

What is it about holding a lover by the hand for the first time that makes you feel that flutter in the stomach? Or the anticipation of a deeper kiss after lightly touching lips and the hint of the deliciousness of the brief touching of tongues... The promise of a deeper connection, the excitement of abandoning oneself to unbridled passion followed by the hope of turning that power of ecstasy into a longer lasting state of safety, security and a more durable lifetime of bliss...

To be understood, admired, respected, acknowledged... To be KNOWN... on all levels... Is that possible?

These are some things I desire...

What do YOU want?

Life is short. I want to live it...

(Update: I'm seriously considering becoming even more mobile. My income comes from internet businesses and while Im not a billionaire, I do have the capability to work from anywhere. I am looking into traveling around and living in different places and doing some quality surfing while I am still strong and healthy. My plan is to spend the next year creating more passive income streams so that I can devote time to some long term traveling. Who knows? maybe I'll permanently move to some untouched surfer's paradise... My latest potential destinations are: South America, South Pacific, Central America... It would be great to find a partner who wanted to accompany me on my journey. A fellow surfer would be ideal!)

Below is the the superficial information about me. But, ultimately, who cares? When we look into each other's eyes, When we lose ourselves in each other's arms, there is no separation... If we choose, we can have that kind of bliss regardless of the specifics of our external lives... If we choose...

But, if you would still like to know about the details that make up the limitations of this meat bag that houses my eternal soul, then read on...

My two favorite activities are hiking in the mountains and surfing. It is my intention to take regular hiking excursions in the mountains and surfing as often as my body will allow...

Some fun facts about me:
I am a writer, I teach Taoist Martial Arts & Kung Fu, Qigong, African Drumming, Meditation... I was a Hollywood actor for about 10 years, I trained with two master Yoruba drummers and one Ifa shaman from Nigeria. I co-founded a Theatre company in Hollywood that is still in business...I've created a modern synthesis of shamanism based on my previous studies with other masters and the "Old Ways" of Europe.

Me drumming with my teacher April 2014

The trailer for my latest Qigong DVD

My latest focus is researching and writing books on pre-Christian European spirituality and reintegrating the spiritual wisdom of my pre-Christian ancestors for modern times.

I am a great listener, I enjoy sharing feelings and working cooperatively during the inevitable tensions that arise as two people grow closer together.

I do not feel my age. While I am interested in a long term relationship that may last the rest of my life, I am definitely NOT looking for someone to "grow old" with.

I work from home and can live anywhere in the world (if I can afford it) as long as there is telephone and internet available. For now, I can't imagine living anywhere but in SoCal...

I am quite comfortable being single. But, I am very open to meeting an amazing woman. If you are intrigued by what you have read..then please drop me a note. I would love to hear from you...

P.S. I am an amateur vedic astrologer. If you want me to look at your chart, drop me a note with your birth info (date, time, city).


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What I’m doing with my life
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Surfing as much as possible and enjoying Southern California Sunshine.
I’m really good at
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sharing feelings, listening. Working on communication skills.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intensity
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mine of course!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Surfing, mountains, exercise, love-making, freedom, books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
These days... Surfing!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If it were private, why would I admit it publicly? Seriously, I don't have any big secrets. What you see is what you get.
You should message me if
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You have ACCURATE, RECENT photos of yourself and you are honest about your appearance, age and body type in your profile.

Ladies, I only want to hear from women who ARE interested in meeting me. If after reading my profile, you are not interested, there is no need to respond to my emails. Your silence will act as a friendly "no thank you." But if you ARE interested in further communication, then please do contact me...