I am a poly, genderweird queer living outside Atlanta with my wife and our two cats.
I'm a writer, reader, knitter, cross-stitcher and aspiring sewist and artist.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in academia, on the administrative side of things. My wife
and I got civil unioned in mid-2014 and after a decent period of
coping with All The Things, we've finally gotten settled in a good,
I’m really good at
I can quote most of Jurassic Park from memory and talk queer and
sex theory for hours on end. As a holdover from my English major
days, I've got penchant for analysis and interpretation which has
occasionally meant friends casually telling me essay prompts and
taking notes as I talked.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most of the time, tattoos. Occasionally I hit on the right
combination of clothes that makes my wife or friends say, "Wow, you
look super gay right now."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are The Giver, The Outsiders, any anything by
Connie Willis or Stephen King. I also have a love of Mary Roach's
nonfiction, N.K Jemisin's alternate history, and China Mieville's
ideas if not always his execution. I have a goodreads under the
username wondyone, which has my hot off the presses feelings about
I am a giant comics nerd, but money is such that I don't have any
active pulls right now. I have a lot of love for both Marvel and
DC, particularly Captain America and his band and the Batfam. I'll
also never say no to the Asgardians or pretty much any of the Teen
Titans and their families. My forever boys are Bucky Barnes, Kate
Kane, Jason Todd, and Roy Harper.
Movies are my jam. I like things blowing up, dumb action, dumber
horror, people getting covered in ash and blood. IE: Jurassic Park,
the Fast and the Furious, D.E.B.S.
The six things I could never do without
- Goldfish crackers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Gender and sexuality and the relationships people have with them
and the relationship they have with each other. How to be ethical
in a world that's super invested in people not thinking too long or
hard about the things they're supposed to do and why they're
supposed to do them.
How to be the best friend I can to people near and far from me and
how to accept friendship without acting like an awkward turtle
flipped over onto its back. How to do kink in a way where everyone
has the best chance of walking away happy and fulfilled and having
gotten what they wanted.
Projects that I want to do, but haven't yet gotten up the follow
through to get rolling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working on my latest story or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be both a ballerina and a member of the poms squad.
You should message me if
If you're rad and you think I'm rad.
Right now I'm mostly looking for friends/cuddle buddies, but if there's the right spark there, I'm open to that too.