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My self-summary
I am a poly, genderweird queer living outside Atlanta with my wife and our two cats.

I'm a writer, reader, knitter, cross-stitcher and aspiring sewist and artist.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in academia, on the administrative side of things. My wife and I got civil unioned in mid-2014 and after a decent period of coping with All The Things, we've finally gotten settled in a good, solid place.
I’m really good at
I can quote most of Jurassic Park from memory and talk queer and sex theory for hours on end. As a holdover from my English major days, I've got penchant for analysis and interpretation which has occasionally meant friends casually telling me essay prompts and taking notes as I talked.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most of the time, tattoos. Occasionally I hit on the right combination of clothes that makes my wife or friends say, "Wow, you look super gay right now."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books are The Giver, The Outsiders, any anything by Connie Willis or Stephen King. I also have a love of Mary Roach's nonfiction, N.K Jemisin's alternate history, and China Mieville's ideas if not always his execution. I have a goodreads under the username wondyone, which has my hot off the presses feelings about books.

I am a giant comics nerd, but money is such that I don't have any active pulls right now. I have a lot of love for both Marvel and DC, particularly Captain America and his band and the Batfam. I'll also never say no to the Asgardians or pretty much any of the Teen Titans and their families. My forever boys are Bucky Barnes, Kate Kane, Jason Todd, and Roy Harper.

Movies are my jam. I like things blowing up, dumb action, dumber horror, people getting covered in ash and blood. IE: Jurassic Park, the Fast and the Furious, D.E.B.S.
The six things I could never do without
- Wife
- Goldfish crackers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Gender and sexuality and the relationships people have with them and the relationship they have with each other. How to be ethical in a world that's super invested in people not thinking too long or hard about the things they're supposed to do and why they're supposed to do them.

How to be the best friend I can to people near and far from me and how to accept friendship without acting like an awkward turtle flipped over onto its back. How to do kink in a way where everyone has the best chance of walking away happy and fulfilled and having gotten what they wanted.

Projects that I want to do, but haven't yet gotten up the follow through to get rolling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working on my latest story or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to be both a ballerina and a member of the poms squad.
You should message me if
If you're rad and you think I'm rad.

Right now I'm mostly looking for friends/cuddle buddies, but if there's the right spark there, I'm open to that too.