Lately the best compliment I can give a girl is:
"I like that you give a normal vibe."
I say this with a little bit of sarcasm but sadly this is true.
I feel Internet dating is like the beginning of D*ckinson's Tale of Two cities. It really IS the best of times and the worst of times.
Let me elaborate. I meet two different types of girls here:
Those are too busy to date the old fashion way and truly wonderful but not ready to settle down.
The highly intelligent, mostly functional, but otherwise emotionally or mentally unstable.
I want more! I deserve to be happy and I want to make you smile as we find bliss together. The girls I have met leave me undecided and wanting something better. I want someone that I will fantasize about every waking hour and I want to be distracted with glee. Since I have not met this girl yet, let me be clear in what I am looking for;
I would like to meet someone that matches all or most of the below traits:
No crazy piercing
Ideally between the ages of 24 and 35
Height between 4’11“and 5’7”
Opinionated and willing to speak her mind (I will still disagree at times)
Fit with some curves
Likes being outdoors
Likes ethnic food (Thai and Vietnamese)
Of different background or race then me
I am not perfect nor do I expect perfection from you. I look for potential beauty over actual beauty. I believe flaws transform into endearing traits and should be embraced and not hidden. I want someone with a strong identity that can peacefully disagree with me. I am not looking for a mirror image of myself but someone that contrasts me in a complementary way.
Here is some information about me.
For the most part I am attracted to girls that are “attractively flawed”. Silly, goofy, plump, excessively cerebral, short, geeky, shy, bratty, awkward, guarded, or hyper it really does not matter as long as your “flaws” make you interesting to me in a “different way”. I am NOT looking for a female version of myself, but rather someone that contrasts and complements me in a POWERFUL way.
If you uber-good looking and require men to buy you stuff, please get in the back of the line. The best I can offer you is friendship, I really don’t have time to date people like you :-P