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sirenleaf

33 / F / Straight / Single

南京, China

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:33pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I appreciate all kinds of new cultural experiences, both low-brow and high-brow. I am not a very high-energy person, but I am not really a homebody either. I like making friends with people who've had life experiences different from my own.

I was born and raised in Philadelphia, and that is where I have returned, after having spent nearly 6 years in China, working and studying. I am a warm person, but it takes awhile for me to open up to others. I have a deep inner life that is sometimes hard to translate. I am artistic, love reading and writing. I also am into China and Chinese language.

I consider myself very open-minded and enjoy getting to know people of all ages, and from different cultures, countries, etc. Being an introvert I usually feel somewhat uncomfortable in social settings with lots of people, but I like getting to know people one-on-one. One of my favorite things to do is to sit in a coffeeshop, and if I am alone, observe the people around me, or if I am with a friend, have a great conversation. (I love coffee, also.)

I am kind, irreverent, and curious

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm always searching for the ideal occupation...this would involve something creative, using Chinese language, and interacting with people (but not too many people). I am excited to be going back to China for the summer to work with a language exchange program. After that, it's back to Philly....maybe for grad school, and maybe to find another job.

I hope to meet more people and start to take advantage of performing arts, galleries, theaters, book-readings, etc.
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I’m really good at
listening (to other people), empathy, giving advice, daydreaming, abstract drawing , being random

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The first things people usually notice about me
my quietness, my (seeming) calmness, my smile (perhaps)

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading. I like books about different countries/cultures, biographies, and short stories. There are too many to remember! One of my favorite authors is Alice Munro. Sadly I am not that up-to-date on my reading as of late.

I like all kinds of music, depending on my mood. I'm not a music snob. i especially like soulful, emotional music by female singers (Fiona Apple, Aimee Mann, stuff like that; plus of course the original jazz/soul stuff like Billie, Ella, etc.)

I like sushi and chocolate. I also like peppermint tea and avocados.

I love going to movie theaters- the darkness, the entire sensory experience- but I wouldn't call myself a movie buff. In fact, you'd probably be surprised at how many popular movies I haven't seen (partially due to not living in the States for awhile).

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The six things I could never do without
reading, travel , pen and notebook, color, creative outlets of all kinds, close friends

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
my past, my future, important people in my life, places I have been, whether I am living life to the fullest

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On a typical Friday night I am
usually doing something quiet...but it doesn't necessarily have to be so. however...if I am working full-time I am usually pretty tired on Friday nights, and ready to relax. If I go out, that will happen on a Saturday:).

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a vivid imagination and fantasy life...

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 18-35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
-you enjoy a good conversation

-you related to something in my profile

-you are interested in more than just sex

-you are kind and intellectually curious

-you are genuine and honest (this is a big one! Casual dating could be good, but I expect openness and honesty in regards to what your situation is, and what you are looking for.)

-major bonus if you are random, witty and creative

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