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sirj77

37 Brooklyn, MI Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm sorry, but I probably won't be making first contact much any more. Rejection is on thing. Lack of common courtesy, and getting judged is another. I'm sick of being ignored for trying, or basically told I'm not good enough. Friends agree that I deserve better. Read the whole profile, I'm making an effort to let you into my head. My heart, needs genuine interest to see. If I 'Like' you, it means I'd be interested in trying.
I'm not looking for 'perfect'. I looking for 'Right', and a fair chance to find out if we are.
I think I'm looking for a woman that has a balanced personality, can be a little geeky, funny, serious, understanding, and a bit of a kid at heart. Can dress up, or dress down and do some dirty work. Likes the outdoors, but doesn't mind playing a game or watching a movie. We are people, we have our stories, feelings, hopes, and wishes, and yes even weak points. One of my weak points is communication, I do the best I can, but it doesn't matter without someone to listen, really listen. I'm looking for a potential best friend, and that takes 2. We are individuals, different, imperfect (yes, you too, come on now :), but maybe we can still be Right for each other. It has to start, and continue, with communication. Are you reading to understand?
I'm generally good natured, but a quiet observer/thinker, and usually need someone to show some interest to get me talking. I'm intelligent, fairly knowledgeable, common sense type person. I like to mess with people I know, but I'm not a practical joker. I like to help people that appreciate it. I like to walk nature trails, bicycle rides, watching movies, and playing on the computer. I have a variety of interests. I'm not your typical "sports and cars" type guy, although I can appreciate them to a point, I'm more about technology and the outdoors.
I like 80's Rock, some modern rock, christian, techno, and some country music, some Acapella.
I enjoy playing Minecraft, and have posted youtube videos of my adventures, if that is of interest. You can see I really exist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at an auto parts store in Brooklyn. It's not ideal, but the work environment and people are better than some jobs I've had. I'm not a "car" person, but I know enough to be dangerous. lol Beyond that, living life like most everyone else. I'm not a partier or anything like that, life is interesting enough without that kind of thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping. I also run sound at my church. I've been told I'm I good friend and an awesome guy. Oddly, not good enough for them Show me they think that. Hmm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm short, and usually too quiet for their liking. I'm not anti-social, just not a social butterfly. I prefer to talk to someone that will try to understand. Learn what 'introvert' is, not how its been stereotyped. We have friends, we generally like talking, we just think and feel a bit differently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've been watching some of the old tv shows on Netflix, and that's been fun. My regular tv doesn't get used much.
My preferred reading is usually either sci-fi, or fantasy/adventure. My most recent reading has been catching up on old Linux Journals (magazine). Lately I've been enjoying some fan made Star Trek audio dramas, which I enjoy.
My movies are usually sci-fi/action, but I'm not beyond the occational "chick flick", Just Like Heaven is a good one. Music varies, depends on what I'm in the mood for.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, hope, love... the usual. Oh, I probably wasn't suppose to take that quite so literally was I? Still, there is a difference between what I "want", and what I can't do without in extreme situations. Watch a show called Revolution, it got me thinking what really need to live life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People usually don't want to know what is on my mind. lol
Usually stuff along the lines of, why do we have to make some things so complicated? Why are people so inconsiderate now days? What happened to common sense & common courtesy?
Why do some women's profiles say "I don't need someone"? Isn't that kind of smack with face on a singles site?
Why is the guy suppose to make first contact, and then ignored when they do?
See, you probably didn't want to know. lol
Something for you to think about...
If you can't help, do no harm. But what if inaction causes harm? Physical or otherwise. Hmm.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually go over to my parents, have dinner, watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You got a better chance of finding out after we get to know each other better. Ok, here's a freebie, I'm afraid of having to live my life alone, thus why I'm here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are interested, and, You have more to say than just "hi". I have concluded that I can't "pick" women, they have to pick me. I'm tired of getting ignored when I try to talk to them. I don't message at random, I go by what I think, and feel.
If you are in my area. I'd prefer within about 30 miles, closer the better. We both have to work, lives, etc, traveling hours to meet is not fair to either of us. And expecting me to like a long distance relationship without an effort for something better is, well, a tease.
If you don't smoke, or really quitting.
If you don't have height hangups. I've known for a long time I'm short for a guy, I don't need to be reminded, and it doesn't make me less human.
You are looking to start a real relationship. If you are just interest in sex or mind games, I'm not interested.
And keep this in mind. Judging me does not define me, it defines you.
And we all have our preferences, none of us are perfect. But just maybe, given the chance, someone might be Right. If you can't bend your preferences, you might miss someone right in front of you.
My name is Jason. Congrats, you made it to the end, and now you known my name. :)
Please take some time on your own profile if you contact me, I'd like to have some idea who I'm talking to. Thanks for your time. :)