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sirj77

35 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Unemployed
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm generally good natured, but a quiet observer/thinker, and usually need someone to show some interest to get me talking. I'm intelligent, kind of a jack-of-trades-master-of-none type person. I like to mess with people I know, but I'm not a practical joker. I tend to clam up when something is bothering me (not intentional, just my reaction). I like to help people that appreciate it, but I don't over extend myself. I like to walk nature trails, bicycle rides, watching movies, and playing on the computer. I have a variety of interests.
I like 80's Rock, some modern rock, christian, techno, and some country music.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a bit of a limbo at the moment. Currently looking for work, keeping myself busy with church stuff, maintaining my uncle's yard, and some of my own little projects. I get a little stir-crazy if I don't have something to occupy myself.
I’m really good at
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping. I also run sound at my church.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm short, and usually too quiet for their liking. I'm just not a social butterfly. I prefer to talk to someone that actually listens.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My preferred reading is usually either sci-fi, or fantasy/adventure. I'm currently reading ebook Sennadar series, by James Galloway.
My movies are usually sci-fi/action. Music varies, depends on what I'm in the mood for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People usually don't want to know what is on my mind. lol
Usually stuff along the lines of, why do we have to make some things so complicated? Why are people so inconsiderate now days? What happened to common sense & common Courtesy.
And why do woman feel the need to back-stab me for trying to talk to them?
See, you probably didn't want to know. lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually staying at home chilling. Would be nice if I had someone to hang out and do stuff with. *wink*
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That would be after we get to know each other better. lol
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You have more to say than just "hi". I mean really, make an effort if you are interested, otherwise, I'm gonna just assume you are a spammer. I don't have patience for games. I am seeking a woman around my age for a long term relationship, to possibly lead to marriage. I understand it has to start as friends which is fine, as long as it's understood what the goal is. Preferably in my area (within about 30 miles). I have little to no interest in long distance relationships, my experience, they are dead ends. Prefer she has no kids (not a deal breaker). Non-smoker. I would love to do outdoor activities with her. Has no height hangups.
I appreciate a good sense of humor, and hey ladies, men are really from mars, so I'll probably make some mistakes. Please be patient, take me as I am, show me how to be better. As the saying goes, If you can't take someone at their worst, you don't deserve them at their best. :)