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38 Brooklyn, MI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:22am
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
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I'm considered an INFP personality (introversion, intuition, feeling, perception). Before you go 'oh, an introvert', please learn what the difference is. I am not anti-social, just not a social butterfly. I like what I say to mean something. I have friends, but I go for quality over quantity. You hit a low spot, then you find out what kind of friends you have. I think and feel a little differently from extroverts, and one is not better or worse than the other, just different strengths and weaknesses, just like people in general.
That being said, I like to joke with my friends, friendly jabs, double meaning to see if they catch it. I like walking nature trails, enjoying the scenery, sometimes see some wildlife. I like my gadgets, I'm good with computers and electronics, they just make sense to me. I like to play computer games when I have time, mainly sandbox adventure type games now days. I also post my adventures on youtube, I have a blog, webpage, facebook, etc. I find my own ways of putting myself out there, that don't majorly conflict with my nature. I even do some recreational writing when the mood hits me, and have a story that I work on. I have a full time job, car, apartment, and I've been in the same church since I was about 5, and I've run sound/tech for about 15 years. I prefer to hangout with a few friends to room full of chatty people. My friends have said I'm an awesome guy, and deserve better than what I've been able to find when it comes to women. I don't know about awesome, and I am pretty frustrated with the luck I've had. I've heard say that a guy isn't suppose to talk about past women. But they have to be at least mentioned to get a better picture, because we are all effected by our experiences. I'm not looking for pity, or judgment, I would want/need understanding. Knowledge is wasted if you can't understand it, people are empty shells if you can't understand them.
I like sci-fi, action, adventure for my movies and reading. I like audio books/dramas. Music, is pretty open, minus screamer heavy metal stuff, and most rap, I don't classify those as music in my head. lol
If you haven't figured it out yet, I'm honest, loyal, intelligent, and have a certain, code of honor I guess you could call it. It might better better known as morals, ethics. Those just sound funny in my head. This by no means is all about me, but hopefully it gives a decent picture. Some things are better seeing for yourself. :)
* I'm looking for someone in my area, not states or countries away. Silly to have to say, but please use a little common sense. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at an auto parts store in Brooklyn. It's not ideal, but the work environment and people are better than some jobs I've had. I'm not a "car" person, but I know enough to be dangerous (which is often more than our customers). lol Beyond that, living life like most everyone else. I'm not a partier or anything like that, life is interesting enough without that kind of thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping (from a few years working in that). I also run sound at my church. I've been told I'm I good friend and an awesome guy. Oddly, not good enough for them 'Show' me they think that. Hmm.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm short, and usually too quiet for their liking. I'm not anti-social, just not a social butterfly. I prefer to talk to someone that will listen and try to understand. Learn what 'introvert' is, not how its been stereotyped. We have friends, we generally like talking, we just think and feel a bit differently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've been watching some of the old tv shows on Netflix, and that's been fun. My regular tv doesn't get used much.
My preferred reading is usually either sci-fi, or fantasy/adventure. My most recent reading has been catching up on old Linux Journals (magazine). Lately I've been enjoying some fan made Star Trek audio dramas, which I enjoy.
My movies are usually sci-fi/action/adventure, but I'm not beyond the occasional "chick flick", 'Just Like Heaven' is a good one, and kind of makes me wish for something like that. Music varies, depends on what I'm in the mood for.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, hope, love... the usual. Oh, I probably wasn't suppose to take that quite so literally was I? Still, there is a difference between what I "want", and what I can't do without in extreme situations. Watch a show called Revolution, it got me thinking what really need to live life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why women feel the need to judge and treat me like dirt. Maybe I should be a dishonest jerk, for all the difference it makes. But that's not me. I'm done making first contact, I'm sick of the bs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually go over to my parents, have dinner, watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never wanted to play the 'dating game', the "rules" are too complicated, and stupid. I can count the number of women I've dated on one hand, and I never got more than one date. I'm tired of never being able to fit a preconceived ideas of the "perfect" guy that no one can fit, and not getting a real chance. I feel like dating has been turned into a job application, not a mutual adventure and discovery, that I don't get to participate in. I wanted a relationship, not a game of prejudice and judgment. I want to be given a real chance. But I'm done with trying to make first contact with women that don't seem to care. I feel it's time for a woman to want to pursue me, and show me that I'm worth something, but it seems like they all automatically hate me.
You should message me if
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If you are serious about a real relationship...
First things out of the way, I'm not looking for sex, hookups, mind games, etc. What I'm looking for is, well, my other half, best friend, partner, a relationship. A woman that understands I'm not perfect, and understands a relationship is not about "I", it's about US. My only real requirements are easy, Christian, non-smoker (or really quitting), and at least in good enough shape to go for a long walk.
Yes, I'm short. Every woman seems to take issue to this, and blocks me from consideration. I would l point out that this is comparable to me saying, I'll only date blonds, or you need to have a certain body type. How does that make you feel? 'That Superficial jerk' neighborhood right? Now, how do you think I feel being shot down for something I can't change? Is that right? There are a few words that cross my mind too. Yes, we all have preferences. Yes, there needs to be a level of physical attraction. I'm not dead, I get it. But we need to get over ourselves a bit, or we will miss someone right in front of us, that, everything else being equal, might be pretty cool (I hope), and at least is trying. I'm just pleading for some understanding and common sense, both of which seem in short supply now days. Be taller than me, wear heels if you like, I'll enjoy a beautiful woman, and still be me. :) By the way, I do have a soft spot for dark blond shoulder length hair, but I'm not hung up on it. I want to know the woman, what makes her happy, sad, what makes her tick, what kind of sense of humor she has, what's her favorite ice cream, what hobbies does she have, what interests her... I could go on. I said I want a partner, and I mean that. I want her to be interested in me too. We are both the sum of our experiences, not all them so great at times. We both have areas we hide from the world, for fear of judgment. I'm not stupid, slow at times maybe (I am a guy), but not stupid. :) Time, patience (maybe alot at times), understanding, can grow trust, and love.