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sirj77

38 Brooklyn, MI Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:23am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
* Unfortunately, I've about given up on singles sites. It's either spammers, or ignored/judged for trying. If you are interested, you are going to have to make the effort. I'm tired & frustrated, and to the point I would like to be pursued for a change (without the creepy factor, lol). *

I'm an INFP, (look it up), Christian (not religious) guy that would like to find a woman for a relationship, best friend, and partner. I realize it has to start somewhere. I'm loyal (sometimes to a fault), I try to be considerate, sometimes my honesty doesn't translate well. I don't like the words 'normal' or 'perfect', because they mean different things to different people. Sometimes I will say something, and it may very well have more meaning to me, and I leave to door open to see if someone will try to explore what I mean, or be content with the answer given (the latter is most common, which is a bit disappointing). I laugh at ironies, and I will take a verbal shot at you if you leave the door open for it (all in good natured fun). I suppose I have a number of hidden quirks, that I'm willing to reveal, given time.

I'm generally good natured (we all have our off days), but a quiet observer/thinker, and usually need someone to show some interest to get me talking. I'm intelligent, fairly knowledgeable, common sense type person. I like to mess with people I know, but I'm not a practical joker. I like to help people that appreciate it. I like to walk nature trails, bicycle rides, watching movies, and playing on the computer. I have a variety of interests. I'm not your typical "sports and cars" type guy, although I can appreciate them to a point, I'm more about technology and the outdoors.
I like 80's Rock, some modern rock, christian, techno, and some country music, some Acapella. I like what Peter Hollens does.
I enjoy playing Minecraft, and post youtube videos of my adventures, if that is of interest. You can see I really exist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at an auto parts store in Brooklyn. It's not ideal, but the work environment and people are better than some jobs I've had. I'm not a "car" person, but I know enough to be dangerous (which is often more than our customers). lol Beyond that, living life like most everyone else. I'm not a partier or anything like that, life is interesting enough without that kind of thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good with computers and general electronics. I have an eye for landscaping (from a few years working in that). I also run sound at my church. I've been told I'm I good friend and an awesome guy. Oddly, not good enough for them Show me they think that. Hmm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm short, and usually too quiet for their liking. I'm not anti-social, just not a social butterfly. I prefer to talk to someone that will listen and try to understand. Learn what 'introvert' is, not how its been stereotyped. We have friends, we generally like talking, we just think and feel a bit differently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've been watching some of the old tv shows on Netflix, and that's been fun. My regular tv doesn't get used much.
My preferred reading is usually either sci-fi, or fantasy/adventure. My most recent reading has been catching up on old Linux Journals (magazine). Lately I've been enjoying some fan made Star Trek audio dramas, which I enjoy.
My movies are usually sci-fi/action, but I'm not beyond the occational "chick flick", Just Like Heaven is a good one. Music varies, depends on what I'm in the mood for.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, food, hope, love... the usual. Oh, I probably wasn't suppose to take that quite so literally was I? Still, there is a difference between what I "want", and what I can't do without in extreme situations. Watch a show called Revolution, it got me thinking what really need to live life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People usually don't want to know what is on my mind. lol
Usually stuff along the lines of, why do we have to make some things so complicated? Why are people so inconsiderate now days? What happened to common sense & common courtesy?
Why do some women's profiles say "I don't need someone"? Isn't that kind of smack with face on a singles site?
Why is the guy suppose to make first contact, and then ignored when they do?
See, you probably didn't want to know. lol
Something for you to think about...
If you can't help, do no harm. But what if inaction causes harm? Physical or otherwise. Hmm.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually go over to my parents, have dinner, watch a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You got a better chance of finding out after we get to know each other better. Ok, here's a freebie, I'm afraid of having to live my life alone, thus why I'm here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are interested, and, You have more to say than just "hi". I have concluded that I can't "pick" women, they have to pick me. I'm tired of getting ignored when I try to talk to them. I don't message at random, I go by what I think, and feel.
If you are in my area. I'd prefer within about 30 miles, closer the better. We both have to work, lives, etc, traveling hours to meet is not fair to either of us. And expecting me to like a long distance relationship without an effort for something better is, well, a tease.
If you don't smoke, or really quitting. No offense, but I don't want to date an ash tray, it's a big turn off for me.
If you don't have height hangups. I've known for a long time I'm short for a guy, I don't need to be reminded, and it doesn't make me less human.
You are looking to start a real relationship and life partner. If you are just interest in sex or mind games, I'm not interested.
And keep this in mind. Judging me does not define me, it defines you.
We all have our preferences, none of us are perfect. But just maybe, given the chance, someone might be Right (or become Right over time). If you can't bend your preferences, you might miss someone right in front of you. Real matches don't fall into your lap, they are discovered, which means you have to be looking.
My name is Jason. Congrats, you made it to the end, and now you known my name. :)
Please take some time on your own profile if you contact me, I'd like to have some idea who I'm talking to. Thanks for your time. :)