First and foremost finding and maintaining spiritual balance during times of uncertainty and chaos. Which is it? Do we define who we are and our passions ? Or do our sweetly dark and brilliantly light desires define who we are ?

As you read my profile please remember a few things: One I'm not an absolute thinker and two my answers are very much tongue and cheek... and should be taken that way.

Like a snap shot in time, I am more than what you see here. I am all the things you can not see which has come before this moment and all the things which have transpired since. The one promise I do make... I am an adventure of the very best kind. Do you have what it takes to get on the ride and feel the wind in your hair and the spray of the water in your face ?
( *soft smile* That was a metaphor for those of you who take things a bit too literal )

I'm a straight sensual, very erotically Dominant male, 6' 250 lbs of semi-muscular, 45. I'm refined, soft spoken, articulate, witty, educated, with a bittersweet DARK SOUL. This is not to say I'm negative, far from it. If anything I'm a pragmatist who sees the glass as half full NOT half empty like so many. As a person I have faced my own mortality, inner truths and flaws. Life for me is a constant journey to "do better and be better". Like most humans some days I live up to it, other days a fail miserably. I'm a (Anthony)Tony Robbins, Dr Wayne Dyer and Dr Phil Disciple

Those who know me say I'm a very dynamic person I am not only comfortable in an Art Museum, black tie affair but the backwoods as well. I have a passion for life, without being materialistic, things can be replaced. I am a ROGUE and proudly so. I do have principles and a clear code of honor. I don't play negative head games however I am no saint. Yet I believe in deeper spiritual meanings and the greater
interconnection of life. There is a higher power, unfortunately we humans just can't agree what to call it. Frankly, I don't care to me all paths up the mountain end up in the same place.

Seeking enlightenment and over coming fear. Otherwise giving into my baser desires and leading chaste women down the path of sin, fornication and temptation. When I'm not doing that.. I stop to help hapless strangers and ask nothing in return.

Being a bad boy, but with a refined New England private school educated style and manners. One who looks good in a suit and knows which fork to use and the difference between caviar and lumpfish. In short, you can dress me up and take me out too.

I'm soft spoken, articulate, well mannered 6'1 255lbs black male. Come on how could you not notice, let's not get all PC and be in denial of the obvious folks... *laugh*

Wow so many... generally anything that makes me a better person.

Sushi, Good Scifi, passionate sex... Do you really think I'm taking this question seriously ? Come on..

Duh... I'm a male what do you think I'm wired to think about every 2.7 seconds what else but sex !! Come on lets be honest here.

After that there is, life, love, relationships, humanity , politics, spirituality, even.... money and power.

In my life no such thing as a typical Friday night. But I am partial to Scifi-Friday on the scifi channel. Otherwise, dancing would be nice, sushi even better or hey even all three. If you have a better offer make it I'm out to make new friends.

I have written numerous articles on the Nature of alternative relationships

You're curious about the dark side of the force... * that was a joke*

Today I'm looking for friends, booty call partner or who knows I'm open to what manifests. Of course if it's fun and your freak we could be talking long term serious life partner here.

Preferences: Age 21 - 45 , race, you will however be Average, Slim, Athletic body type. Overweight women don't excite me and neither do anorexics.

I love women. Positive turn on's for me: Displayed femininity, skirts, high heels and hose. Having a bit of exhibitionist in you is a plus.