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48 F Topanga, CA

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Last Online
Today – 3:31pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hello, I'm a 50yo European and American Citizen women, english is my second language (which explain some of my writing;).

It's a good thing nobody is perfect, it would be boring. So, imperfect man or finding my opposite wouldn't be bad as long as we have few affinities. I would love to find someone nice and with similar interest, self sufficient, for the rest of my life would be nice. Me (says who?): Integrity, kindness, spirituality, loving, making the world better, keep growing in every way... very cliche but real. I'm more on the bohemian side and like to believe that I'm a outside of the box thinker. I don't tolerate intolerance, like open minded people. Smile when I see a child, pet a dog when I see one and save the spider visiting my house. I'm a self made women and my work is my passion, even if I'm partially retired, I love it very much and keep going most of the time, in LA and SF. Money has never been a motivation but I find myself good at it and know the value of it. We're in LA and as much as I love LA, money doesn't impress or attract me. Been to many places, I still open to the idea of exploring the world, with no destination in mind, even if that means finding good french food around the corner. I'm free to even stay where I travel if I feel the need to learn a new culture or just happen to like it so much… Charity is a big dream in my life.
I'm fine wearing a fancy dress, funky clothes, little black dress or simply the shirt of my boyfriend when I woke up, keep it on all day (boyfriend and shirt;).

Maybe we talk on the phone once and then grab some coffee, lunch. I'm not to good for you and I'm definitely good enough, so please email and if I don't respond, just don't take it personally, doesn't mean much either :)
I'm french, so I love kissing (strange to say that but I know some american don't "french kiss"… better to know).
What I’m doing with my life
I know what I'm doing but principally enjoying it day by day and always open to any change or improvement ...
I’m really good at
- business
- putting myself in new place/country and find my way there
- taking care of the others (please, not looking to take care of you financially) here is my first contradiction
- being spontaneous about going anywhere, anytime
- loving, cooking, gardening
- moving, braking, staging, turning nothing on something
The first things people usually notice about me
my french accent... even after almost 20years here, still have it...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: it's been a while, not much time for it but internet articles, Bridge of soul, "L'ame" J. Jung, architecture, design magazines, Psychic Dreaming (Loyd Auerbach), Loyalty to your soul, Siddartha, Susking (the parfum), Poe, etc
Music: the Loose Marbles, The blackbox revelation (I think I like you) (Never Alone / Always Together), Triggerfinger (All My Floating), Jeff Who? (Barfly), The Black Keys, Foo Fighters, Paolo Conte, Stan Getz, S Gainsbourg, Japan, Depeche Mode, Fishtank, J Division, S Back, Handel, Ramones, Clash, Nine inch snails, Radio Head, White Stripes, The buffalo skinners...
TV (Netflix): Modern family, Arrested Development, Louie, Orange is the new Black (getting a little to much now but may just be a bad "passage"? waiting for the good comeback), Californication, Master of sex, Mad Men, PBS documentaries/Master pieces. Even if I really like some series, I rarely plan on watching any (to many good, I would be living a front of my tv;), I made the choice when I decide to watch TV.
Movies: The note book, Wrist Cutters, Trainspotting, Breakfast Club, Bandits, Cinema Paradiso, Little Miss Sunshine, Amadeus, Drive, The Royal Tenenbaums, A Fish Called Wanda, 2 Days in Paris, most of Woody Allen, Cassavetes...
The six things I could never do without
- my dog
- water/sun/good food
- imagination/inspiration/creativity
- friends/family
- a flat pillow
- love... and kissing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Spirituality, philosophy, bricks, metal, wood, concrete, painting, what it would be to be with you, how I will be able to do all I want in such a short time. What I could do to help to make the world better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Mostly like any other day, maybe trying not to go out on Friday, prefer week day. Movie, friends (brilliant if possible), fun activity, relaxing home, eating out, dressing up, camping, creating, working...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm gourmande but it's not private. I love chocolat, I do, I really do.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you're old enough to not be my son or young enough to not be my dad;)
you like dog
you're ok with differences/opposites
you like to talk in person or on the phone instead of writing
you like food

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