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sister_bluebird

29 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Milwaukee, Wisconsin

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am an artisan, enthusiastic, and confused.

My Self-Summary

I'm adding this as a note to those who can't be bothered to read further down in the profile. I'm not interested in sex chat or fulfilling your deepest fantasies. I'm only here to talk to people who are actually interested in what I have to say and share similar interests. If my cup size is all you care about, please do not message me.

I'm a freelance artist and freelance writer, born in 1979 (you do the math), and a pagan, specifically rather an eclectic one, and a follower of Loki and the Morrighan. I have a B.A. in studio art and creative writing, neither of which have had a lot to do with my salable abilities, but both of which were a lot of fun on the way.

I am quite shy, with a tendency towards being really loud and exuberant once I know people. I'm polyamorous and look to stay that way for the foreseeable future. I'm in a committed long-term, long-distance relationship with one male, and in a serious relationship of unknown duration with another. I'm glad to answer questions about polyamory if you have them.

Personals sites generally give me a bit of the willies, so this is for the purpose of conversational fun. I wouldn't want to date anyone I hadn't gotten to know really well first anyhow.

Other than that, I like historical reenactment (I'm in the SCA) and costuming, and my room plays host to a variable number of cuddly, squishy rats. I like fantasy novels and movies, am addicted to the internet, and have a more than passing interest in sustainable housing. I'm something of a goth, and currently have a significant fondness for steampunk and anachrotech aesthetics, though I am mechanically inadept.

I am doing a bit of corsetry in my less than ample spare time. I enjoy period dance, rpgs, and playing with language. I'm rather kinky, though not terribly well versed in bdsm communities.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm writing and illustrating full-time now, with a bit of sewing and miscellaneous crafting on the side. I vend at occasional SF and fantasy conventions. You're most likely to see me in person if the con is in the Midwest.

I’m really good at

Painting, sewing, whining, cooking, making a large mess, alphabetizing, pen and ink, Photoshop and Illustrator.

The first things people usually notice about me

Well, I'm not sure, as I'm not most people, but I'm shortish, round, and busty, I wear glasses and I'm either being shy or overy raucous, depending on my surroundings.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

These change with the moment, but right now I'm going to say:
A. Lord of the Rings, Discworld
B. Gormenghast
C. Pink Floyd, Nick Cave, Steeleye Span, Blind Guardian
D. Pizza, pastry, most cheese-based things

The six things I could never do without

Friends, eyes, hands, love, art, liberty

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Relationships, future plans, how very scary the government is, unusual animals in funny hats.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging about in my apartment, working on a project and chattering with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Erm. I no longer own any non-victorian underpants?

You should message me if

You feel like meeting or talking to someone about various esoteric topics for a bit, perhaps getting to know them better. There's an even chance I won't have any idea how to talk about what you want, but so it goes.