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38 Happy Valley, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:39pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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(and I mean it.)
What I’m doing with my life
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-Doing good in tiny ways, and celebrating the sacred in the mundane

-Living in beautiful Happy Valley (No, it really isn't that far from "everything")

-Celebrating life with my primary partner, and our absurdly adorable cats

-Appreciating poly life, love, and friendship

-Cultivating bliss

I'm a scientist by trade, and a mystic in practice. I enjoy spending time in nature and watching campy crap on Netflix. I secretly indulge in eating homemade pizza bagels (shh), and I make my own yogurt and bread...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...a broad number of things. Life is about learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books by author or title, and in no order:
Nick Bantock, A Confederacy of Dunces, Anais Nin, Milan Kundera, anything remotely associated with The Dark Tower, Henry Miller, Camus, Sartre, Israel Regardie, James Baldwin, Jennifer Government, Langston Hughes, Zora Neale Hurston, Kahlil Gibran, The Master and Margarita, Phillip K. Dick, Pablo Neruda, etc.

Movies in no order:
Latcho Drom, Kung Fu Hustle, Legend of the Drunken Master, Shortbus, Shaft's Big Score, Little Miss Sunshine, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, Uptown Saturday Night, The Stuff, LOTR, Eulogy, Winged Migration, Cooley High, Ladyhawke, The Abyss, Old School, Secretary, The Point, Fantastic Planet, Hellraiser, all things Christopher Guest
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Honest and open communication
...and apparently, my damned phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
space, time, mind, body, consciousness, fitness, reiki, art, dance, hanky-panky, energy work, food, meditation, nature
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I actually like that statement as it is.
"On a typical Friday night I am". Its true.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...changes from moment to moment, and person to person.
You should message me if
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