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insightful, bizarre, and compassionate

My self-summary Propose an edit

Apparently, my recent change to "seeing someone" status has attracted attention from the "meaningless, non-committed sex" crowd. Let me assure you, kindly, that I am not interested. And to those who plan on messaging me anyway, let me tell you not so kindly to please fuck off. Thank you.

Damn, I really wish I could use html here.

Like others of my species (go here for info: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human), I am capable of great hypocrisy, great consistency, strong hatred and passionate love. I am aware of all these potentials, and do not pretend otherwise. However, I am also aware that I can choose to be less of a hypocrite, and not open my heart to hatred. That is my view of reality, and thus I am a realist. (not to be confused with economic realism)

Yes, I am a realist. Some may call me an optimist, but they're wrong. For example, I call shit "compost." I say that's just realistic.

Ugh, it takes so much energy being original. It really shouldn't.

I love music, and find it stimulates my imagination. I care about the world, and hate apathy. I sometimes accidentally squeak when I laugh. And my humility surpasses that of all those around me.

Also, I hate Ayn Rand with an obsessive passion.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Postgrad diploma in Environmental Management. Focus on policy. Interested in human-nature relationships, indigenous peoples, agriculture. Living in ecovillage. Brevity is the soul of wit.

Me go fetch beer.

I'm actually bored out of my mind at the moment, but that will change once the semester begins. I'm wasting my time letting the internet slowly devour my soul.

Update: I have since begun the semester. I find myself spending less time letting the parasite of cyberspace ravenously consume my soul. I am putting more creative energy into academics—i.e. learning to write the word "epistemic" a lot.

Sitakali is writing great tests at OKCUPID, and holds her courage closely, with love and humor. I would like to get high with Sitakali! --Sylvia Wells


I'm really good at Propose an edit

Piano playing; sketching; brooding; whining; being creative; being spiritual; fantasizing; tripping over and bumping into and spilling things; procrastinating; stringing adjectives together to create unending, pedantic, pretentious, sarcastic, verbose, and intellectually stimulating diatribes.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I'm an "odd duck." I start out as shy, but don't let that fool ya. I speak my mind. I tend to gravitate towards the RPG/sci-fi geeks, even though I'm not exactly one myself. I'm what one may call a "geek-hag."

I'm insightful and care about what's happening in the world. Very analytical. I also have a very dark, sometimes dead-pan, and completely random sense of humour. If this gives you any hints: I love Dead Like Me and Monty Python, and my ultimate hero is Stephen Colbert.


My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: The Night World Series by LJ Smith, The Last Vampire series by Christopher Pike, Ender's Game, The Dispossessed, Twilight by Stephanie Meyer

Movies: 28 Days Later; 21 Grams; Aeon Flux; American Beauty; American History X; Dogma; Donnie Darko; Equilibrium; Good-bye, Lenin!; Good Night and Good Luck; The Interpreter; LA Story; Living Out Loud; Motorcycle Diaries; Network; Shaun of the Dead; Series 7

Music: Anggun (Indonesian pop singer who mostly sings in English and French), Imogen Heap, Des'ree, Sarah McLachlan, Loreena McKennett

Food: pizza, Italian, Indian, (all-time favorite is an Indian dessert called gulab jamun).

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Passion, beauty, compassion, love, humanity, and other hippie-dippie shit.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

See below.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Pontificating the probability that paternalistic plutocracies will proliferate on the planet, propagating their power, pissing off the proletariat, and promoting apocalyptic pestilence and peak oil, purely for the purpose of profit.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

A few people have asked me what kind of guy I'm looking for. My previous answer is no longer valid. My new answer is this: I am not looking for anyone.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You find me interesting, especially if you want to help save the world with me. We must have something important in common! If you think I'm cute, and didn't pay attention to the fact that I'm a radical, tree-hugging, feminazi, bleeding-heart, dominant-paradigm-hating, anarcho-socialist, then don't bother.

And please do not message me if you wish to have sex with me. I simply don't care :)

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sitakali: 1127 questions

Ethnicity
N/A
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Looking For
N/A
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from
Job
Military
Income
more than $1,000,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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