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60 Annapolis, MD Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 52–63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:42pm
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Welcome! Nice of you to drop by for a visit.

Even though I believe I'm an amazing woman, I'm savvy enough to know that I'm a bit of an enigma--some sweet and a lot of spicy to make me a challenge and not a pushover. That almost sounds like some secret sauce, doesn't it?

As a complex woman (yeah, roll those eyes big boy), here are a few descriptors: Active, dancer, vivacious, independent, traveller, fit, drama-free, firecracker, inquisitive, tactile, optimistic, ENTJ, playful, movie and sports lover, sometimes wordy (can't you tell?), impatient, technologically and vertically challenged, night owl who gets up early, and have been known to bite back if bitten. Gently.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Retired interior designer. Now federal employee. Daily workout. Spending way too much time watching sports, but the Big Dance is here! Boating on the Bay. Planning my next vacation. House projects. Exploring the road of no regrets. Investment club. Any spontaneous adventure or a trip to the beach.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing anywhere.
Grilling and baking.
Double entendres.
Wearing skirts, dresses and heels.
Traveling with one carry on bag.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A word that bears mentioning: callipygian. Look it up. Don't have to? Even better!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Gone With the Wind and Bull Durham. Chris Issak, Keith Urban, Johns Mayer and Legend, Rihanna, Maroon 5, and more recently Sam Smith. Food? Eat to live. Not much of a tv watcher, except for Blacklist and Game of Thrones. I love lacrosse and the Packers.

Prefer activity and books, like The Four Agreements, Blink, Tipping Point, The Art of Racing in the Rain and Born to Run. Any suggestions?

Absolutely love those pictures of you smiling, that show the twinkle in your eyes. However, the hook that snags me is your descriptive profile. Keep up the great work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Optimism, hope, faith, Love with a big L. I vascillate over 5 and 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My favorite saying is: Things happen for a reason, just believe.

I also believe in the miracle of second love and together we are better.

How to balance my natural affinity to go-go-go with my need for a good night's sleep.

Wondering if your eyes glaze over when you see how many paragraphs are written here, or if you just check out the pics.

Friendship on fire describes what I seek--that all important spark of attraction. Mentally stimulating. Easygoing demeanor. If you sport an engaging smile or great hands (good for opening jars or reaching the top shelf) or want to know more, then please send me a message.

Life doesn't always turn out as expected. Sometimes, it's even better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Last Friday: Caribbean. Next Friday: who knows?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pick one:

I may not be perfect, but parts of me are excellent.

I was recently measured at the doctor's office. I am shrinking!

You didn't think there'd be something juicy here, did you?

My boys call me delicate flower. Perhaps that's why I'm such a wienie at initiating an online conversation. In person is a different story.

Still not satisfied, are you?

Ok, one last attempt...I would love to take tango, swing or salsa lessons and dance the night away.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You made it through my entire profile, or you'd like to race go-carts, hit a bucket of golf balls, have an adventure, go for a walk or a bike ride and you can relate to Annie Savoy and Crash Davis' connection in Bull Durham...for really big points, let's go dancing...or if you're a non-couch potato who can string together a couple of sentences to engage in witty banter, then...

Tag, you're it!

For those of you unfamiliar with Crash Davis: fit, articulate, mentally challenging, confident, great smile and nice eyes mirror a good heart, and passionate about something--not necessarily baseball!

And if not, then good luck in your deserve to find the love of your life.

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