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52 San Jose, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 27, 2013
Hispanic / Latin
5' 2" (1.57m)
Space camp
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a happy person who loves life and believes that laughter is the best medicine and I always strive to be positive. Although I work hard, there is balance in my life and I like to have fun and love being silly too. My family and friends describe me as the most undemanding and laidback person they know. They are also telling me it’s time for me to meet a nice man.

Yes, I am a work in progress but I am in a good place in my life and trying to make it to the gym. Nevertheless, I am active, healthy, and I like to get out of the house on weekends to explore the Bay Area. I’m not a fan of camping in a tent but I do love the outdoors. I don’t frequent clubs or bars, but I enjoy going out to dinner and the occasional cocktail with friends or a special man. I am an artist in my spare time so going to galleries and museums is something I really enjoy. Although I am no couch potato, that doesn’t mean that I don’t value my quiet time at home and doing things around the house like gardening.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living each day to the fullest, enjoying time with family and friends and thinking about my next great adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at being me. I'm a very warm, loving and caring person. Once you are my friend, you are a friend for life. My sons and family are part of my heart. I am a wonderful artist, work hard at my job and adore my pets.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well I hope it's my stunning good looks, brilliant smile and sparking eyes. Seriously who knows! I'll let you figure that out. I do often hear that my photo's don't do me justice and I look much younger than my age. Who doesn't like to hear that! :0)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like Dean Koontz and James Patterson books but I have been so busy that reading has not been high on my agenda these days.

My favorite movie of all time is Sleepless in Seattle. What can I say, I'm a hopeful romantic. I love a good chick flick but I also enjoy scifi, action and some dramas too.

Favorite programs are: Big Bang Theory, NCIS, Elementary, Mike & Molly, How I Met Your Mother, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Face Off, etc. I love watching the history/biography channels and even some reality shows about graphic artists, tattoo artists (no i don't have any), pawn shops and ghosts (I'm a believer!).

I like almost all music including cross over country, I just don't get rap and I'm not really into jazz or blues but can appreciate it.

My beverage of choice is a good beer or the occasional vodka martini. I think Italian and Japanese food are my favorites right now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/Friends and hopefully a special guy
My pets
Music (my Ipod)
Painting supplies
Laughter and Joy
Love, Passion and Intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend time thinking about my next great adventure, what I will be doing in 2013 and who will be on the journey with me. I take life one day at a time and do stop to smell the roses.

I love to travel and have recently been to Japan and Italy. This year is a cruise to Alaska and next year will be Paris and Rome. I want to see some glaciers before they are all gone! Care to join me? (Sorry, trip to Alaska was taken in September and it was awesome! I am going again!!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night for me. I enjoy going out with family or friends. I also enjoy being home and relaxing after a busy work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To know me is to love me ;o)
You should message me if
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If you know what you want, are confident to go for it and in it for the long haul.

Please DO NOT message me if:
= You do not have a photo (why are you hiding?)
= You are a collector of photo's, email addresses or only interested in emailing or instant messaging
= You are married or otherwise attached
= You are only looking for a sexual relationship
= You live out of my area
= Not in my age range