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sjbm

22 North Port, FL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 22
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So... I just graduated school (March '15) and came to Florida three days later to visit my friend who moved here in August.
I'd prefer* to meet a verse guy that has the potential to be a good husband a couple years down the road. I'm not that just for fun kind of guy, every time I tried it, I felt disappointed. However those aren't necessary requirements.
I'm a really loyal guy, I've had the same friends since eighth grade, but I'm not clingy at all and I like people who can find entertainment without me. I've been told its an aquarius thing.
I've lived across the bridge from Manhattan, NY for a year and it was an amazing experience. I'd go back if the opportunity arises and I had no prior engagements.
Right now I'm trying to focus my time on my body and mind. When I moved from the city back to Pa it was quite depressing and I gained a little weight so I'm working on that. I'm not the most confident person but I can say I was probably the best in my school. Both NJ and Pa. Beauty culture and cosmetology always came easy to me, I wish I was one of the more "fabulous" guys but I'm just not like that. My hair is usually in a messy bun and I never wear make up, but at least my eyebrows are usually on fleek. I could probably shave more often too. haha
I love giving facials and working on skin so that could be a plus for you. :P
I'm an art loving person. I love museums and sight seeing, anything inspiring. I like to paint but nothing specific. I like to write short poems and Ive even had one published and won a 2nd place award for it. That was pretty cool.
I've never had a gay friend who wasn't a slutty douche. So I'd love to meet other chill guys to hangout with as friends. I'm always up for movies, and going for walks, fishing, sports, and the beach. lol
Just say hi, honestly, because I'm not the first message making kind of guy. lol
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Cosmetologist and I'm a Certified Extension Specialist. I'm hoping to become an Expert Hair Cutter, Colorist, and Aesthetician. I want to own my own business' and make a good living making people feel good about themselves. After I reach a point where income isn't an issue, I think I'd like to continue my education into Dermatology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Crying at the theater over a movie. Cooking. Being supportive. Seeing through bullshit. Learning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm quiet, people usually presume that I look mad. However I'm funny and outgoing, I just like to look around to see who Id be more interested in talking to.
Body wise, my eyes, smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't watch very much Tv, but I'm definitely a movie person. Lately I've been into classics.
Pretty Woman is one of my favorites.
I enjoy reading a book now and then, but I buy books regardless because I like the way they look on a shelf. I'll probably never own an ereader tablet of any kind. I like the smell and turning the page in a book.
I'm into a lot of different genres of music, anything from Deadmou5, to the supremes. Not really into country but I grew up listening to Faith Hill and Shania Twain.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Space (Aquarian)
Wine
Places to runaway to
White sheets
Strangers who tell me their life story
The stars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sociology, the world, and my future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine and watching a movie alone. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not very good at being consistent with messaging and texting.
You should message me if
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You're genuine and looking for something similar.