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sjboenzi

29 Tucson, AZ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 23
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Italian

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My self-summary
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I am a music educator who is still actively performing. I have a huge affinity for the Arts. I have a bunch more to say, but typing on a phone sucks and my computer is otherwise detained. In the meantime, I suppose it provides you the opportunity to ask questions.

Ask away!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I teach middle school band & orchestra. I love teaching. I love kids. I love music. I hate my district. That one element really makes everything else hard to love, but I soldier on and make the best of it. I aspire to teach high school band. Marching band is one of my passions, and I think my personality lends itself to teaching that age group better.

I take dance classes to keep myself sane. It's the only thing I do right now with 100% no external pressure. I've been dancing seriously since 2008 when I was introduced to color guard. My one regret in life is that I didn't start dancing sooner. Oh well... so I take my ballet classes with 7-year-old girls and work on my technique and set a good example for the young performers.

I am a professional clarinet player. Most of my work is freelance and private lessons. After college, I found myself extremely burnt out on playing, but have slowly rekindled my love for my clarinet. Now it's something I can't go very long without playing--it's a great feeling.

Eventually, I want to go to grad school and get a degree in either Music Ed or Conducting. There will be some serious clarinet study going on as well.

After that I want to move to Italy and teach there for a year--probably english. Then I will come back to the states and start building a great high school band program.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Teaching. Math. Design. Horseback riding. Working with animals. Lists. Irony. Puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Many people have told me throughout my life that I am very intense. It's true. I am very driven about whatever it is I am doing or care about. One person told me that he thought I wanted to kill him--no joke! I don't want to kill anyone. (The irony was that I had the hugest crush on him.) However, I am extremely kind, and I am willing to entertain at least polite conversation with anyone. Everyone gets a chance. :)

Physically, most people notice my eyes and my hair. I keep my hair different and on the radical side. One friend told me that every time he saw me my hair was in a different decade--that's how much I change my hair style.

I'm also pretty energetic. I get excited. Everything is a big deal. I'm optimistic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - Music--specifically my clarinet
B - Colorguard/Dance
iii - My cat
$ - Meat
star - Nature
110 - creative thinking
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My brain never stops. I actually hate it. I re-run and analyze every situation that goes on in my life. When I'm not hyper-analyzing my life, I am thinking about color guard, dance, music, or lesson plans.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
One of two things happens on a Friday:

1) I am home alone watching tv or movies or practicing.
2) I am out with friends dancing at a club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a huge problem understanding sarcasm. Many times, I will smile or laugh because I know it's supposed to be funny. My problem isn't that I don't get the joke (although that does happen often). It's that I can come up with 4-6 different ways it could be funny and don't know which one to laugh at. Yeah... it's dumb. I just don't like making mistakes--even if it is something as simple as laughing at a joke for the wrong reason. I'm working on it. #winner #sarcasm #inappropriateuseofhashtags.