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sjchan

38 M San Mateo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I am an Asian male looking to find someone to spend some time with and eventually spend and share my life with. I tend to be on the shy side, so it is hard meeting people in every day life. I have always been very committed to my friends, so if I am needed, I am there, regardless. I work way too much for someone who is searching for someone, but the right guy can help me change that. I am a sports nut, meaning a HUGE SF Giants fan, but also enjoy spending time at home watching a good movie. I love reality TV but also prime time TV that is worth watching. Every year I take part in the Nike Half Marathon, jogging/walking it (swiftly) with my friend in honor of our friend who passed away from leukemia. I like to do it to keep in good shape as well and feel great after participating. Oddly enough I tend to get along a lot better with guys who are opposite personality from me. I'm noticing I spend more time worrying about other people than myself which doesn't help finding great people to date. I am low key guy reserved guy, yet have been to Burning Man every gear since 2008.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been working in Human Resources for almost 12 plus years now and really enjoy what I do. I do like helping people and explaining things to them to assist them as best I can. I work six days a week since I still have my high school job as a part time thing on Saturday for the discount. My summer will be focused around seeing as much of the San Francisco Giants as I can. I need to start making time to meet people so I can spend my life with someone. Sometimes it takes the right person to help me realize what I have been missing all my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Evaluating situations and people, getting the job done, saving money, caring for others. I sometimes am quiet so I can take in the whole picture. I am good at getting things done. I hate sitting around waiting for things to come to me, so I'd rather do things myself if I can.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and sense of humor, I am usually smiling at people when they first see me and I always keep things in good spirits. Even in the most difficult situations, humor can conquer anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Any book written by Judge Judy, any comedy, most dramas, some sci-fi flicks, Top 40's music, punk, rock, pop, Mexican food, Italian, Burgers, BBQ foods. I am in great shape, but can eat with the best of them. I take going to a buffet as a challenge to eat my money's worth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am an internet junkie. It's easier for me to keep in touch this way. I drink 6 bottles water a day. Keeps you healthy and helps flush your system. TV is way too much a part of people's lives, luckily it has not consumed me, but it is a part of my life. My friends are important to me as well as their opinions on subjects that involve me. I choose my friends carefully and value them all. I have driven the same truck for 13 years. It has done well for me. There are times where my truck is the oldest car in a parking lot, but I am proud of that. Friday has always been about donuts at work. Not the best food, but it is a big guilty pleasure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my life wold be like in the future, and the people I could spend the rest of my life with. I am the type of person who wants to plan things out ahead of time, so it is always nice to think about my future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing poker once a month is one way I unwind, but the economy has put poker on stand-by. Going out to dinner is great way to learn about others. I usually end my Friday's watching a DVD, either a movie or sme TV Series on DVD.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I knew I was gay when I was in 6th grade, and have been in the closet for the most part even since. I rarely share such things with many people because of not knowing what they may think of me. I am slowly getting over these things.
You should message me if
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If you think you we would enjoy spending time together in conversation or we can improve each other's lives, send me a message and we will see where things go.