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GentlemanAmateur

51 Philadelphia, PA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:19pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Being 6'2" I'm easy to spot in a crowded room. You'll end up laughing...a lot. The natural world balances me and art, photography, literature, architecture and especially cinema inform and inspire me. I like to surround myself with people who are creative, nonjudgmental, curious dreamers who want to make the world a better place because this is who I am or trying to be.

I have lived in NYC for 15 years interrupted by time spent in LA, Berkeley, Boston and currently Philadelphia. I am touched with wanderlust and am equipped to create a life anywhere with the right person.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring it out, starting a project, chasing happiness, and attempting to live in the present. Yoga and stretching, sitting is my enemy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Noticing the details that others miss in life. The art of play. Seeking adventures. I've been told I make good wedding toasts. I am a willing accomplice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can easily start a conversation with anyone yet also like to silently observe life. Obviously I tend to write a bit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll write what comes to mind but could easily revise it tomorrow. Books on Buddhism, cinema, travel writers, a bit weak on the classics but eager - currently reading Palm Sunday by Kurt Vonnegut - an interesting collection of essays, letters and short stories.....movies - old star driven films with Cary, Audrey and Ingrid; have watched a great deal of independent and foreign films, especially French cinema. Some directors that inspire are Michel Gondry, Stanley Kubrick, Alexander Payne, Mike Leigh and Dardenne brothers. some films are Manon of the Spring, Elephant Man, Sideways, Saving Private Ryan, Betty Blue, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Let the Right One In (Swedish Version), Happy - Go- Lucky. I don't own a TV but use Netflix - British dramas, mysteries, period pieces including Doc Martin, Dr. Who, and PBS shows Nature, Frontline, Newshour ... I read BBC news and NYT online ....music - 80's, electronic, some classical, ambient, electronic, reggae and internet radio & podcasts when cooking or driving - tow favorites are On Being and the Q and A....food.....fresh and local is best if possible, eating fish and vegetables since college but I would say Japanese, Indian, Mediterranean ...I am tempted to delete all the above and write - "Let's discuss when we meet".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Endless laughter
2. An enlightening conversation
3. Nature
4. Travel
5. Warm water to slip into
6. A possibility
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning and humor of it all, where to travel to next and living abroad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I seem to have mostly avoided the typical in my life. No reason to start the weekend this way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My life's secrets will be divulged quietly in an empty restaurant or under the covers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You tell the truth, even when it hurts. You are kind, enjoy nature and feel the urge to create..anything . You're just dam fun to be with. If you were born outside of the US or believe that other cultures make your life rich then we will get along.