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GentlemanAmateur

50 Philadelphia, PA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Being 6'2" I'm easy to spot in a crowded room. You'll end up laughing...a lot. The natural world balances me and a great deal of art, photography, literature, architecture and especially cinema inform and inspire me. I like to surround myself with people who are creative, nonjudgmental, curious dreamers who want to make the world a better place because this is who I am.

I have lived in NYC for 15 years interrupted by time spent in LA, Berkeley, Boston and currently Philadelphia. I am touched with wanderlust and am equipped to create a life anywhere with the right person.

Some of my other favorite things are the sounds and flashes of thunderstorms, strolling though the natural world, biking across the city, hearing bits of conversation between two strangers, watching the world nestled in a cafe, a stack of books within arms reach of my bed, a yoga pose that reminds me how inflexible I am, driving on a summer's eve with the windows down and music up, the very start of a train trip, drifting off to sleep on an empty beach, my brother and my dear friends.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring it out, starting a project, chasing happiness, and attempting to live in the present. Yoga and stretching, sitting is my enemy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Noticing the details that others miss in life. The art of play. Seeking adventures. I've been told I make good wedding toasts. I am open to trying things I haven't done or places I haven't been to. I am a willing accomplice.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can easily start a conversation with anyone yet also like to silently observe life. Obviously I tend to write a bit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Wow, that's hard to answer. I'll just start typing but honestly this list could be revised weekly....… books on Buddhism, cinema, travel writers, weak on the classics, ...movies - I have a passion for film and can’t really list all that have influenced, inspired, and moved me but - old star driven films with Cary, Audrey and Ingrid as well as great number of French, independent and foreign films. Some directors I that inspire are Michel Gondry, Stanley Kubrick, Alexander Payne, Billy Wyler, and some films are Three Colors Trilogy, Manon of the Spring, Elephant Man, La Belle et la Bete, A Separation, Saving Private Ryan, Betty Blue, Let the Right One In (Swedish Version), Head On, Little White Lies, ...TV? - I don't own one but use Netflix - lots of British dramas, mysteries, period pieces like Doc Martin, Dr. Who, Downton Abby, and PBS shows Nature, Frontline, Newshour ... I read BBC news and NYT online ....music..yikes when does this end?.. - 80's, electronic, some classical, ambient, electronic, reggae and have been doing a lot of internet radio lately & podcasts like The Treatment, Buddhist Geeks , On Being, the Q and A....food..this is getting ridiculous...fresh, organic when possible, eating fish and vegetables since college, Japanese, Indian, Mediterranean ...I am tempted to delete all the above and write - "Let's discuss when we meet".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Endless laughter
2. An enlightening conversation
3. Honesty
4. Untold varieties of music
5. The sun, heat and warm water to slip into
6. A possibility, the unknown, change
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning and humor of it all, where to travel to next and living abroad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I seem to have mostly avoided the typical in my life. No reason to start the weekend this way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My life's secrets will be divulged quietly in an empty restaurant or under the covers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You tell the truth, even when it hurts. You are kind, have a developed sense of humor, enjoy nature and feel the urge to create..anything . You're just dam fun to be with and lead a felt life. If you were born outside of the US or believe that other cultures make your life rich then we will get along.