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sjlake

43 / F / straight / Single

Sacramento, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

I am a passionate, loving, funny women who is looking for the right man to continue my life. I am self sufficient but still want that special someone to share my life and love with. I love to laugh and be outdoors. Put me in the ocean and I'm a happy women. I love kids and want them to be a part of my life. I'm looking for someone who is financially secure and emotionally secure. Please no baggage. You MUST be addiction free. Deal with them all day at work don't want to deal with them at home.
Love football and baseball and being active. There's much more but to find out you'll need to e-mail me.

What I’m doing with my life

I work with college students dealing with their addictions. I love what I do.
I'm also so very involved with helping others get the lives they deserve.
I have a close relationship with my family even though they are all on the East coast.

I’m really good at

Listening and helping other
I love to cook and make a mean mashed potato and Chocolate Chip cookie.
Staying calm in a crisis
Being there for my friends when I'm needed

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and my eyes
Once I open my mouth, my sense of hummor

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Mary Higgins Clark, Twilight Series, and Sandra Brown for books

Movies favorite is Breakfast Club. I like all kinds even done a few foreign films but mostly action or romantic comedy

Music- 80's chick all the way just saw Def Leppard and love the hair bands. Also love Nickelback who I also saw this week

Food- seafood is my favorite just found out a year ago allergic to gluten so no wheat for a yr for me but love meat and all other kinds of protein

The six things I could never do without

My friends
My cell phone
Chocolate
My family
Water
My spirituality

On a typical Friday night I am

out with friends, catching up on the shows I missed or reading a good book

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm an open book who's made mistakes and learned from them and want to be loved and cherished the way I deserve. I have a lot of love to give back and just want to find that right person so we can share an AMAZING life.

You should message me if

You want to get to know me better

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