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32 M San Francisco, CA

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Today – 5:11pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
I'm just a guy, you know.

I'm silly at times and stoic at others. I think intelligence is sexy and love giving it as much as I receive it.

I'm an Australian, and I moved the Bay Area in July 2013. I came to join an awesome circle of friends and to change employers. At the start of 2013 I basically decided to turn my whole world upside down.

I'm also part of a long-term loving poly relationship. She's awesome, she knows I'm having adventures on my own. She's disabled her account temporarily due to some haters who told her that OkC is for non-married people only. Sheesh. If you think that as well, well .. tough luck.

I'm looking for like-minded people interested ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. I'm looking for some adventure and trouble with new people.

I'm a kinkster and after living this part of my life privately in my 20's, I slowly came out of my shell in the Sydney club scene. I'm hoping to continue this in the Bay Area.

Sometimes I take myself far too seriously and I can be intense. But I'm also the master of self-reflection and self-improvement. I'm getting better.
What I’m doing with my life
At the beginning of 2013 I decided that it was time to change things up, and move away from my comfortable but soul-killing job. I decided to turn my whole life upside dow and move to the Bay Area. I quit my job with no job to go to, but found work. The first few months post-move were crazy, and now things are settling down leaving more time for the social life.

I also made a pact at the start of 2012 to exercise a lot more as a regular part of my live and to eat and live healthier, and it's paying off. I'm in love with the gym again, and I'm fitter now than I've been in a long time.

I'm exploring the Bay Area, searching for interesting food joints, music venues, and like-minded kinksters.
I’m really good at
Useless trivia.


Discovering great music.

Discovering awesome television.

Engaging in long conversations.

Dirty jokes.


Using the oxford comma.
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice and broad shoulders.

The Australian accent.
The six things I could never do without
My iPhone
My friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What kind of trouble can I land myself in. What's beyond that door?
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, watching TV, or playing games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm on Fetlife. Come and find me.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 21–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're kinky, poly-, like big & tall men and want a friendship along with the benefits.

You want to take me to the Citadel or the Power Exchange, or perhaps somewhere else I don't know about.

You're spontaneous, fun and willing to show me how to get into trouble here.

You're looking for sexy friends, but may also be open to something a little more committed.

You want to debate about how Christopher Eccleston was an underrated Doctor.

This is appealing: I want to sit on polished floors in a loft, smoke cigars, drink bourbon and listen to 70's rock and roll on vinyl. Hopefully you do too.