Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Starting off, I am not a wannabe thug or badass so if that’s the
kind of guys you’re looking for then good luck with that. As for me
I will actually be there for you and not play games. Btw my name is
Benn. I am a full time student for Architecture and Sustainability
with a minor in Scuba Diving, Design technology, and Psychology of
Human Development. I was in the army for 6 years before coming to
college. I got out from injuries sustained in Iraq. I am also a
single father to a 5 year old boy. My son is my world and I cannot
see life without him. I do what I can to be the best father for him
and I feel he has helped me to become a better person. I was
married to his mother for a year, but have been divorced since
2011. I enjoy the outdoors. I love to camp, fish, scuba dive,
grill, travel, golf, cook, have a few drinks with friends, shoot
some pool, play with my dogs, or maybe even just spend a night
cuddling up with a glass of wine and good conversation or a good
movie. Any questions just hit me up.
Disclaimer: If you have no intentions on ever meeting up then lets
not waste each other’s time. I am looking to hang out and possibly
date. I do not need a pen pal. I am too old to be playing games so
lets be real.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Full Time Student
Full Time Father
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, being a father, giving advice, helping others,
fixing things, being completely random.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Food (especially bacon)
Water (both recreational and drinking)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Psychology and how the person's mind work and why people react as
they do in everyday life. The human mind is so complex and
I also spend a lot of times thinking about projects for the house
and different designs to make it look and feel better without
breaking the bank to fix it up. It's good exercise for my budgeting
skills as well as architecture skills.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with my son playing the wii or watching movies or haning
out with some friends...sometimes both if my friends are cool
enough to join my son and I for Mario Kart WII!!
You should message me if
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You Find me attractive/interesting
Have intentions of hanging out sometime
Insight on a career/job for me or projects for school
Like to have a good time
Doesn't mind that I have my son full-time
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