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38 F Tampa, FL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:50am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am married to Xquitz. We have a non-monogamous and open relationship. Our flavor of polyamory includes honest communication, respect, and disclosure within the agreed upon boundaries. In other words, we each know with whom the other is involved. No exceptions.

I make art, crochet, snap pictures and write when the mood strikes. I love the fall and winter, when the air is cooler. I grew up in the Upper Midwest and moved to Florida in 2009. I love floating on the water and collecting shells.

I'm introverted and eccentric. A contradiction and constantly changing. Compassionate and mischievous. Strong-willed and bratty. I'm a fire sign, a metal element, a (recovering) perfectionist, and empathetic. I am analytically random.

I'm kept by several adorable cats, all rescues.

My sense of humor is wicked, sarcastic and twisted mixed with cute and sweet. The more comfortable I am in a situation, the less likely my TMI filter is in place. I swear sometimes, especially when fired up or inspired. Very few people render me speechless, and I'm usually impressed by those who do.

I don't discuss much in politics or religion. I lean liberal. I have settled into being spiritual.

I am heteroflexible (somewhere between straight and bisexual), and in BDSM terms, I'm a masochistic switch with sadistic tendencies. I can be found on Fet as dreamlikeme.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning and evolving. Still have a lot to discover, both in the world and within myself.
Creating art, and exploring where my interests are heading.
I’m really good at
Experimenting (with art, among other things).
Making witty comments.
Knowing random factoids, and song lyrics.
Being helpful and empathetic.
Organization and coming up with ideas.
Logistics and some navigation. Once I've driven somewhere, I can usually find it again.
Bucking the system and doing my own thing. If I get into an adventurous mood, I often jump at the chance to try something new.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either quiet and distant, or open and friendly. Depends on the environment and circumstances.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Favorites include The Bridge Across Forever, Illusions and One by Richard Bach; Lightning by Dean R Koontz and anything by Hiaasen. Currently reading Anatomy of the Spirit.
I also read art and journaling sites, books and magazines.

Movies: Love Actually, Blade Trinity, Matrix and Matrix Reloaded, LOTR, The Chronicles of Riddick, The Ugly Truth, The A-team, Serenity, Lost In Translation, The Avengers. Generally comedy and action, though if the movie sounds good, I'll consider it. On my own, I'm more likely to wait until a movie is out on Netflix.

TV Shows: Burn Notice, Leverage, True Blood, The Glades, Six Feet Under, Firefly, Daria, Lost Girl, Torchwood, Arrow, Doctor Who.

Music is a passion. I was raised around 50s-60s and (classic) country, along with influences everywhere else with friends and my own explorations. I don't bother with genres; music is good or it isn't. That said, a sampling of what I listen to: Eve 6, VAST, Duncan Sheik, Blue October, Pentatonix, Boston, Big & Rich, Alabama, Adele, Amanda Palmer, Bobby McFerrin, Cake, Cee Lo, Dazy Head Mazy, Florence + the Machine, Owen Plant, Dave Ellis, Seether, Shinedown, Three Days Grace, Muse, Live, Jarle Bernhoft, James Morrison, Larry Gatlin, Asleep at the Wheel, George Strait, Kyrstyn Pixton, Cold, Collective Soul, Godsmack, Kaiser Chiefs, Disturbed, Kasabian. I have a special place in my heart for a capella and cover songs.

Foods: chocolate, raspberries, mangos, fruit smoothies, cinnamon, grilled cheese sandwiches, (good) Greek yogurt. I make fabulous tuna casserole. I can cook, though I don't cook often.

Drinks: iced tea, chai lattes, root beer, raspberry lemonade. I don't drink alcohol much, though I lean towards sweet wines or fruity drinks.

Other favorites:
Word games (Words With Friends, 7 Little Words), resource management games, Fluxx, Cards Against Humanity.
The six things I could never do without
chosen family
lip balm
art projects
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. My mind is constantly thinking about something, with weird associations between subjects.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing anything from errands, to going out with friends, to attending a discussion group. My schedule's fairly flexible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no idea. Some things others would consider private I have no problem discussing.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 30–53
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're articulate, which also includes spelling out words, using spacing and punctuation and refraining from 'txt speak' (u, r, ur, etc).
You're funny.
You appreciate art and/or music.
You actually read through my profile, and fully understand that I'm in a committed relationship, and will not exchange phone numbers or IM info without getting to know you first, or engage in hook ups.
You're poly, or poly-friendly.
You're curious about anything I wrote here.

Please offer the beginnings of a conversation. Saying 'Hi' and having nothing in your profile really doesn't give me much to work with, and I will not reply. Cheesy pickup lines are a source of amusement, however I likely won't fall for them.