Hello! I'm an introverted, eccentric, polyamorous woman who is also strong willed and mischievous. I'm analytically random, compassionate, artistic, and empathetic.
I am married to Xquitz. He's super great and I love him to bits. We're polyamorous and have a non-monogamous and open relationship. I am not looking to replace him, and he clearly knows I'm here (we link to each other's profiles). I'm also dating another pretty great guy, Aquaholic82.
I love flirting. My sense of humor is wicked, sarcastic and twisted mixed with cute and sweet. The more comfortable I am, the less likely my TMI filter is in place. I joke with my sister that I'm decent for about ten minutes, once a month. I swear fairly often, though I can clean up my language when necessary.
Few people render me speechless, and I'm usually impressed by those who do. I am not easily surprised, nor offended, though my willingness to tolerate asshatery is pretty low.
I rarely discuss politics or religion. I lean liberal. I have settled into being spiritual.
I am heteroflexible (somewhere between straight and bisexual), and in kink terms, I'm a masochistic switch with sadistic tendencies. I can be found on Fet as dreamlikeme.
What I'd prefer in a person I date: communication, honesty, compassion and a sense of humor are important. Someone who wants good things/qualities in their life and is willing to do the work necessary to get there. They are confident in themself, unapologetic about who they are, and open-minded. Someone who accepts me as I am (quirks, flaws and all), yet encourages me to continually strive to improve the areas I want to improve in myself. They are cordial to those in my life. In return, I will do all of those above things, as best as I can.
I'm willing to be friends with nearly anyone, however I will only date men who are truly polyamorous (which means your partner(s) know(s) about me, and you can expect to meet mine if at all possible).
Not interested in one night stands or hookups.