If you read nothing else, please read this:
I am not single. I am polyamorous. I am in an open relationship. If you are looking for someone single, or your answers to questions indicate you're against open relationships, we probably won't get along. I'm open to being friends, but won't be anyone's one and only.
If your opening message is something similar to 'hi' or 'how are you?' with nothing else, I'm probably not going to reply.
I desire actual conversation, and if you're not willing to do your part, I'll stop replying.
If you want a one night stand, move on.
The rest of my profile:
I am married to Xquitz. He's super great and I love him to bits. We're polyamorous and have a non-monogamous and open relationship. We each know with whom the other is involved. No exceptions. I'm also on a fwb basis with a couple people.
My primary deal breakers are secret relationships and lying. Honesty, transparency, communication, safety, and trust are important to me.
I'm looking for friendship, with the possibility of more happening.
If you're looking for a one night stand, keep looking.
I paint and make mixed media pieces, crochet, snap and edit pictures and write when the mood strikes. I love the fall and winter, when the air is cooler. I grew up in the Upper Midwest and moved to Florida in 2009. I love floating on the water and collecting shells.
I'm introverted and eccentric, a contradiction and constantly changing. Compassionate and mischievous. Strong-willed and bratty. I'm a fire sign, a metal element, a (recovering) perfectionist, and empathetic. I am analytically random. I am disinclined to be boxed in or obligated to do anything that isn't a Hell Yes for me.
I'm kept by several adorable cats, all rescues.
I'm a curvy BBW. Weight has been a lifelong challenge, and while I am actively working on it, I'm doing so for me and me alone. I am fairly comfortable in my skin, and those in my life accept me exactly as I am. If you have an issue with it, kindly move along.
My sense of humor is wicked, sarcastic and twisted mixed with cute and sweet. The more comfortable I am in a situation, the less likely my TMI filter is in place. I swear sometimes, especially when fired up or inspired. Very few people render me speechless, and I'm usually impressed by those who do.
I don't discuss much in politics or religion. I lean liberal. I have settled into being spiritual.
I am heteroflexible (somewhere between straight and bisexual), and in BDSM terms, I'm a masochistic switch with sadistic tendencies. I can be found on Fet as dreamlikeme.