I am married to Xquitz. He's super neat and I love him to bits. We practice ethical non-monogamy (for more info on that, look up More Than Two or Ethical Slut). I'm also dating three other pretty great guys, one not on OKC as well as Aquaholic82 and mrboogie74.
I'm a part of a quad with Xquitz, Aquaholic82 and ChainMailChick, which is part of a greater polycule of some amazing people, which include Wallypoly and AshleyAiko. I adore my paramours and my metamours.
I love flirting. My sense of humor is wicked, sarcastic and twisted, mixed with cute and sweet. The more comfortable I am, the less likely my TMI filter is in place. I joke with my sister that I'm decent for about ten minutes, once a month. I swear a lot, though I can clean up my language when necessary.
Few people render me speechless, and I'm usually impressed by those who do. I am not easily surprised, nor offended; my willingness to tolerate asshatery is pretty low. I appreciate creative flirting, after a hello; jumping right into innuendoes or being crude will not get you a positive response. Also, I hate small talk, and prefer conversations with substance.
I rarely discuss politics or religion. I lean liberal. I have settled into being spiritual.
I am heteroflexible (somewhere between straight and bisexual), and in kink terms, I'm a masochistic switch with sadistic tendencies. I can be found on Fet as dreamlikeme.
I'm willing to be friends with nearly anyone, however I will only date those who are truly polyamorous (which means your partner(s) will know about me, and you can expect to meet mine if at all possible). If you are strictly or mostly monogamous, or looking for someone single to date, please save us both time and keep going.
I like individuals who are funny, geeky, enjoy board and card games, watching weird videos on youtube. Bonus points if you're into renaissance faires and are creative.
Not interested in one night stands, playing with strangers, or hookups.