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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:28pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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I was born in Paris, grew up in New York and Florida, and moved out to San Francisco about eleven years ago. The things that really get me excited are music, books, film, art, the theatre, and sports. Sure, there are other things I enjoy, but those are the things that make me froth at the mouth. If you're not mildly snobby about at least one of those things, maybe we're not a good match. In other words, if your favorite band is Train, your favorite book is Twilight, the only thing you've seen on Broadway is Spider-Man the musical, AND the last time you observed a sporting event was that opening ceremony with all the pretty lights in China, we might not be a perfect match. I can take three of those, but four is just too much.

I fall just short of conforming to all the requisite online dating cliches. I enjoy traveling, but have not been to all seven continents, hiked Machu Picchu, and taught blind orphans calculus in Madagascar. I very much enjoy exercise, but I have never in my life even trained for a quarter-marathon, much less a half or a full. I am not EXACTLY as comfortable with a night out on the town as I am with a relaxing evening curled up with a bottle of Merlot and a good movie, but it's somewhere around the 60-40 range.
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach and write. I feed my head with interesting things, then see what comes back out.
I’m really good at
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Naming pub trivia teams
Random knowledge about music, 80s movies, sports, and foods that start with the letter q.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Reddish beard vs. brownish hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Corrections, Middlesex, A Fan's Notes, A Visit From the Goon Squad, The Art of Fielding, Great Gatsby, The Patrick Melrose Novels, Brave New World, White Teeth, Blood Meridian.
Movies: Winter's Bone, Magnolia, Taxi Driver, Run, Lola, Run, Big Lebowski, Un prophete, Trois Coleurs: Bleu, Real Genius, Pulp Fiction
Shows: The Wire, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, True Detective, Six Feet Under, Arrested Development, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Freaks and Geeks.
Music: The xx, The Knife, Burial, Bowie, Brian Eno, Ford and Lopatin, PJ Harvey, J. Dilla, Fiona Apple, Radiohead, REM, MF Doom, Belle and Sebastian, Cocteau Twins, Joy Division, etc.
Food: Almost everything
Play: Jerusalem is the best play I've ever seen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Writing, music, books, coffee, good food, and exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The 80s. Were they really that great, or is it just because I was viewing them through the rose-colored glasses of a child? I mean, Real Genius couldn't have been THAT great a movie, could it? Wait, I know the answer to that question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually trying to rally to go out. San Francisco is a pretty amazing city, so I try to take advantage of it. I mean, I could watch Two and a Half Men while gorging on Corn Chips anywhere, right?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You want to meet up for a drink, a laugh, and marriage within 6-8 months. (kidding!)