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36 Asheville, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly other
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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happy, content and fulfilled. this is foremost. l believe life is a journey and i'm patient with the process... learning and growing. there is joy in my journey.

i'm a pursuer of big dreams and big goals. i believe that if i can imagine it, it can happen. turning dreams into reality is what motivates me. i am passionate about what i do professionally and because of this, work never feels like work. i work for myself. like a boss but not a boss. that, to me, is living the dream.

i have a soft exterior with a strong interior, meaning i am warm, inviting, affectionate, but at the same time i have a life, am independent, am not scared to stand up for myself, and i am not cool with not being treated right. i recognize the importance of balancing femininity and an approachable spirit with self worth and confidence. i also value and believe in the differences between masculine and feminine and the varying natural roles/tendencies within each. i am looking for a masculine driven man to be my feminine counterpart.

the artist in me enjoys being well presented whether it is casual or dressy. i enjoy an assortment of things and am always open to trying something new. i have good taste but am not lavish (i find the best things thrifting at goodwill, for example). balanced would describe me well. i love being a woman and all things related to that, but on the flip side, i grew up with brothers and have no fear of roughing it, going without makeup and getting my hands dirty as needed.
What I’m doing with my life
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following big dreams and working hard to create the life i want to live.
I’m really good at
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being honest, inspiring and motivating others, dreaming big, thrifting, hugs, listening, enjoying the simple things in life, cooking, giving (and receiving) back rubs, rolling with the punches, sass talk, entertaining, styling, smiling, keeping a positive perspective and being tidy
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile first. My honesty second.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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music: too many to name. music is big for me.

books: the slight edge, secrets to the millionaire mind, pillars of the earth, outliers. i tend to read more for personal development.

movies: bill cunningham new york; exit through the gift shop; steel magnolias; midnight in paris; argo

tv: i rarely watch it

food: keep it real, living and nutrient dense.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- affection
- music
- porches
- walks
- sunshine
- sunday mornings in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where i'm going in life and how to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
the older i get the less i enjoy going "out" per se. i'm not a fan of big scenes nor groups. small gatherings at my place or out with a few friends is more my style.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have nothing to hide. ask away.
You should message me if
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you are: authentic. kind. compassionate. driven. motivated. masculine. personal growth should also be important to you. some awareness of health/wellness would be lovely. on the flip side, someone who is overly into watching tv for several hours every night or someone who smokes cigarettes on the consistent are more than likely not going to vibe right with me.