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33 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 10
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Dropped out of space camp
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I love being outside and I love art. I love art that comes from outside. I like words and thoughts and ideas and people and creatures.

I spend a lot of time hiking in the woods, on the beach, on the mountainside. I want to hear from you if you want to keep me company doing this. My dogs are great but I'm looking to branch out ;)

I'm craving a connection with someone who is open and interested in building connections and working to explore and maintain them. Friends or lovers, it doesn't matter so much. I want to meet people who want to Know other people and I want to Know them back. Because you're all so very beautiful and so am I.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work a fair bit. I have a cool job that keeps me interested and I run a side business as a witch doctor for animals so there's some variety. What I'm doing with my life is attempting to live it well as much of the time as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, listening, mediating situations, punning, adapting
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know - I think this question says more about the other person than it does about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
These are arbitrary and meaningless since how could I possibly choose? Yet, here I go:

Books: East of Eden, The Happy Prince, All My Friends are Dead, Spice-Box of Earth
Movie: The Hudsucker Proxy, A Knight's Tale, Y Tu Mama Tabien, Zoolander, Rent, Harold and Maude
Music: The Mountain Goats, John Darnielle, Leonard Cohen, Pulp, Wilco, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Kid Koala, Radiohead, REM, Antony and the Johnsons, The Mountain Goats, John Darnielle (deliberate repeat for effect). there are so so many others but it doesn't matter.
Food: Lemon, garlic, spicy salty and sour. I should disclose that I really love meat (though you don't have to). I was a vegetarian for 11 years and now I run a Beef Eating Society and I enjoy finding ethically raised meat from local sources.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Compassion, patience, wit, love, time and fresh air. Also maybe my dogs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I want to be a better human. I want to engage with the world in ways that I don't know about yet. I want to never stop figuring out and understanding the human condition. I want to never be "done" growing. I spend a lot of time thinking about strategies around that and teaching myself to be open to people and experiences despite my inclination to stay inside my comfort zone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends. I like staying in, I like going out. I'm probably either having a meal with friends or hanging out at home with my animals and reading a book or listening to a record or doing laundry or all of those things at once.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm ftm, look it up if you don't know what it means. It's probably important.

I'm INTJ....which...well. You know.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think the best thing about this universe is the wacky, inexplicable human shit we all get up to as a species. It's also the worst....but lighten up :)

In the interests of being totally honest, I am not very interested in getting involved with a poly situation. Happy to make new friends, but it's just not really my bag romantically.