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36 M South San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:04pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I was looking through the quick match section on my phone and I came to realize a few things:

(1) OKCupid really doesn't understand what my match is. LoL. I have libertarian leanings, I like the traditional All-American woman type, women with mass numbers of piercings and tattoos encompassing 75% of their body do not appeal to me. I have no problem with people like that, to each their own (just not for me). I work, I go home and spend my life living on my three day weekends (I always have three day weekends)
(2) I can't stand hipsters. I have met a few around town, hung out, and I thought they were arrogant and disconnected from reality. I thought it was just those friends of friends I was hanging out with. No, I have come to realize that looking through the profiles, questions answered and whatnot, that no. They are arrogant and annoying conformists. They just don't know it.
(3) I am the only person that comes home on weeknights after a long day at work and just want to go to sleep, usually without eating. Everyone else, at least on OKC, is out, dressed to the nines and cocktail mixers. I must be the most boring person on this site.
(4) Everyone has traveled the world, taken pictures at Machu Piccu, and felt the need to post it because being a world traveler and just want to remind you that they have been someplace you probably have never been because they have more money (or at least their parents) than you.
(5) Woman from the Bay Area are far more materialistic than other parts of the Country. I have looked at profiles from Atlanta because I am building a home out there and thought I might spend some time there in the future. You don't see the arrogance and propensity to one-up the next profile that will come up next.
(6) There are too many pictures of women's bodies. You are on the wrong site if you are just looking to get laid. At least I think.

Well, those are just some of my musings. Are there real women out there that work, come home, live mostly on the weekends that are interested in getting to know someone normal, good, and relatively entertaining?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have already gotten the travel bug out of my system. I have been to over 50 countries, most of which I never want to see again. Coming home, after working overseas, I have realized there are important things in life: Family, Self, and the pursuit of happiness. We have a limited number of trips around the Sun and we really need to make the most of it. I would love to meet someone to share those trips around the Sun with.

As far as what I am doing with life. I work, spend time exploring my surroundings. I share in the lives of my family and friends (especially my nephew and niece). I live a simple, peaceful and unencumbered life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
It's actually pretty hard to think about what you are good at. This is what I came up with. . .

I am good at organizing things and finding patterns in everything. When it comes to things at work, I can easily see cause and effect and come up with if/then scenarios that assist management in making informed decisions. I tend believe without my input they would be

What else, um...I am great in bed. I have references if you need them. :-P

I love to talk and learn from people. I have this strange way of reading people and finding ways to draw them close in conversation. Almost like we have known each other for a lifetime.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yup, I am bald. I shave my head and accept my genetic predisposition gracefully. :-P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I would have to say that my favorite book is Paulo Coelho's The Alchemist. The meaning I took from the book is that the most important thing in life is the journey we take as we walk the path. That is the true treasure, not "stuff" we accumulate along the way.

I just picked up Coelho's new book for .99 cents in the iTunes Book Store. I love reading and I love my iPad. Nothing like getting lost in a story.

I really liked the movie "The Good Shepard" with Matt Damon. I love spy movies. It had everything, world war, cloak and daggers, Angelina Jolie.

Did someone say food? I have lived all over the world and I would have to say that my favorite food is Thai. The flavors dance across your tongue in ways that bland American food never could. Their use of spices is amazing and leaves you wanting for more. Good lord, I want some Thai food now. But seriously, I love all food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family
2. My friends
3. Transportation
4. A job
5. Money
6. Wi-Fi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What will the next step on this journey will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, not too much. I'm looking for friends to go out and do things with. Let's plan!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I bought an inflatable hot tub from Target a couple weeks back and I was couple of wine in (with friends of course) when I tried to get out and face planted. I lost my pants on the way down and my creepy conservative Filipino neighbors filmed it.
You should message me if
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You are looking for something serious with a good man.