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24 M Ann Arbor, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:28pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm generally a curious person.

I have plenty of stories. I think everybody has plenty of stories, even those who have led tame and safe lives so far. Everyone has something interesting and unique about them.

I enjoy meeting new people. I don't jump into relationships, and I reject what seems to be dating convention. I like to befriend someone before I consider dating them. Much less pressure on everybody, and I learn more about a person by being their friend. To give my specific meaning of the word, dating is getting to know new people that may interest me. I like an open mind, accurate self-appraisal, sarcasm, cleverness, honesty, curiosity, ambition, emotional intelligence/awareness. Being more introverted, I recharge when I'm spending time alone.

There are exceptions to my practices, behaviors, and beliefs. I'm usually reconsidering, making changes hopefully for the better, and adopting ideas.

Self-awareness is sexy. So is accurate self-appraisal.
What I’m doing with my life
Serving and hosting at a cafe/brewery, reading, writing, drinking cab-sauv or IPAs (PBR and the like make appearances, but rarely liquor), looking forward to moving into a nicer and cleaner house, doing homework, going to class, learning, etc.
I’m really good at
- Coming up with astonishingly clever lists of what I'm really good at
- Asking questions
- Skepticism
- Subtle(?) Humor
- Learning about something that interests me
- Listening, when I can get interested
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recent favorite books/authors: The Name of the Wind and The Wise Man's Fear by Patrick Rothfuss (Kingkiller Chronicle), Kurt Vonnegut, The Magicians by Lev Grossman. My bio textbook.

Recent/longstanding favorite movies/directors [in need of updating, pending time to watch new movies]: Donnie Darko, The Intouchables, Brick, Wristcutters: A Love Story, anything Wes Anderson, Amélie, Cashback, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, The Game, The Social Network, Snatch.

Recent favorite shows: Sherlock and House of Cards. I've been watching stories less frequently.

Recent/longstanding favorite music: Explosions in the Sky, CocoRosie, Chopin, The Mother we Share by CHVRCHES, some Bon Iver, This Will Destroy You.

Recent favorite food: A bowl of the actually delicious store-brand equivalent of Special K (preferably with some fruit, yogurt, and/or chocolate in it) with skim milk for breakfast; 1-2 cups of black coffee; sandwiches consisting of cheap and tasty store-brand bread, two slices of cheese (lately swiss, formerly provolone), three or four slices each of cheap deli ham and turkey (depending on slice thickness); Honeycrisp apples; bananas; blueberry fruit-on-the-bottom yogurt; store-bought baked goods. Either this is actually my recent favorite food, or this is just exactly what I eat just about every day of my adult life. That said, I like sushi, pasta dishes with various forms of meats and sauces, diner breakfast foods, and bread.

Favorite games: Alan Wake, Indigo Prophecy, Ocarina of Time, Majora's Mask, Assassin's Creed, BioShock, FFVII, FFIX, Dark Souls.

And more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The value of individual and institutional transparency, insincerity, and delusion.

The industrial nature of the current prevailing education system, and how much more successful education could be if it were more individualized and less standardized. The importance of support and encouragement of curiosity and creativity in school. How school and learning can be made more interesting and accessible to more people.

Energy, electrons, atoms, electricity, basic chemistry, heat, light, friction, sound, biological structures and functions, and a smattering of other things covered in my intro to bio textbook.

How communication and understanding relate to and depend on one another. How to make learning easier and more interesting. How to spend/how I'm spending my time. My thought patterns, how they became what they are, and how they might be changed for the better. Where I'll be living come August. My friends and family. Money. A good deal of the things I do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Pickpocketing everyone because I become invisible on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Excluding this one, I will rewrite or delete most of my responses to these essay questions every few months. Sometimes they change quite a bit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You have questions or want some to answer.