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45 Colorado Springs, CO Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:54am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sprinkle in some insight while mixing into what I like and look intently, you would see these traits: Snow skiing, mountains, beachside, warmth, fireplaces, freshly ground coffee, small batch bourbon, wine, craft beer, laughter, wicked thunder & lightning storms, warm rain, photography (thus, I am behind the camera and not in front), cars, tools, home projects, stargazing, roadsters, hiking, long drives, movie marathons, foodie, long hugs, soft touches, sunshine, football, hockey, playing golf, horseback rides, different ethnic foods, sense of adventure, holding hands, long kisses, starstruck moments between ourselves, snowstorms in the winter, 1 big blanket for 2 people, someone to learn ballroom, swing and latin dancing with, cooking together (because after all, love does start in the kitchen and is an all day affair), an open mind, and trying new things....Keep it real and Stay Classy....

My eyes are hazel, meaning they can be either brown or green depending on the color of clothes worn. While I have sunglasses on in most of my photos (I am active), shouldn't there be some mystery in getting to know each other?

I am quietly strong and an introvert. I don't need to say a lot to get my point across.

I have been told I present better in person than I do in photographs. I don't know why, but I take the compliment. So, don't let the photographs alone be your decision factor.

I like to exercise regularly to keep healthy. I would hope you do too. Together, two partners can exercise to stay healthy while growing in all relationship facets.

Communication must ebb and flow so there are no failures to share. I am a levelheaded person and won't argue vehemently to create drama or be a part of drama. I don't do drama.

Remember, Iron sharpens Iron.....there is a balance in life that should be maintained or things can go haywire quickly. Especially, don't go to bed mad. Resolve and make up get the picture.

I will say I am tired of games being played in a relationship....yes, women play games too.....guys like integrity, honesty and someone they can be open is two-way in a relationship.....

(Per comments I have seen by ladies on here about other guy profiles, I have ensured there no photos of me bare chested in front of a car or with mountains in the background.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living to the best of my ability
Keeping things in perspective
Not sweating the small stuff
Finding humor in it all
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trying to stay humble and laugh at the little things in life, including my own foibles.....DOH!

Trying to find the unique things off the highway of life which should be seen because they are vastly different from the norm.....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Dimples and my curly hair so I am told, but I will leave that up to you for you tell me what you think you see first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to laugh at a great comedy. Just let out a rip roaring laugh at the funniest, yet stupidest things...including myself...I do find I need to quickly bite a knuckle to avoid drawing attention.

I don't watch much mainstream television. Big Bang Theory is something I like on mainstream. The rest is on the other channels we pay waaaay too much for.

I love sports, thrill of competition and camaraderie had. Football with you or with many others including you at home or elsewhere....if you catch my attention just right, you could get me to skip the game and read about it later.....sports in person are great to watch, especially if it is minor league or college where passion reigns in their journey.

Favorite movies (typical American male movies): Patton, Bullitt, Braveheart, Gladiator, Kingdom of Heaven, Shawshank Redemption, The Great Escape, watch mine with me, I will watch yours with you....I did mention movie marathons before, so if a 80's movie marathon is on or other classic movies, you can bet I am watching it.

I am into fictional history books which are close to actual events but doesn't rewrite them. I find it easier to learn now that I am not being tested on the material by some older teacher who could have lived it.....I like to read about the history of place and visit it.

Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman is a list topper in my personal journey. (Quality Time/Physical Touch if you have read this far.) I cannot read minds like Carnac the Magnificent could read envelopes. I need all the clues I can get. My personal journey has led me to much growth in deep inside.

I love music though I don't play an instrument, so I appreciate it through enjoyment. Yet to visit Red Rocks, but whether it is a band in a hole in the wall joint or a major venue, I will be happy to enjoy the time. If you play, I will listen with a smile I am sure. My musical tastes are wide ranging based upon my raising with many musical tastes from those who mentored me.

I love culture. There are so many things I just find to do that I have never heard of that I look for someone to share those times with. Food, beverages, events, places, day, night, near or far, there is culture everywhere!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor and the ability to laugh
Just being and enjoying life at that for today and the moment....tomorrow will be there and yesterday is in the past
Being able to share life with someone
Seeing the world though other visions besides mine
.....this is only five, but they encompass a lot as they are written....and I reserve the right to keep one to me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. the winter, "Is there new snow at Breckenridge?" the summer, "How hot is it going to be?"
....when it comes to sushi, "Will the other prospective relationship partner be ok if I like to eat sushi even if they don't?"
....if people know that Christmas exists year 'round when it comes to New Mexican food?
....did Batman and Robin ever have a beer after a day of fighting crime in Gotham City?
....have we really resorted to photographs and algorithms to tell us who is a match and who is not?
....why are we being looked at like a car on a car lot and waiting for someone who wants to take us for a test drive? people truly understand what sarcasm is (masked anger and hostility) and what is it not (witty banter)? When they want to be funny and playful, barbs of sarcasm are not the way, but witty banter is with those who know you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
After a long week at work, which is still only five work days for me, I really like to relax and get off my feet....maybe watching the stars, watching the weather as storms roll through or a sunset with a nice red wine....

I know what I would like Friday nights to be......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will trip over my own two feet and make mistakes with a sincere apology to follow if need be. I don't expect you to be perfect and neither will I. These are something men don't normally admit!!

I am a gearhead....
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