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skidance

59 / F / Straight / Single

Buffalo Grove, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:15pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have put the dates on my pictures for it seems that too many people have very old photos. I am not from IL but I have lived in a number of different cities in the U.S. including Denver, Aspen, Louisville, Ky, Dallas, San Diego, Milwaukee and more. ( I am at a point in my life where I can stay in IL or perhaps live elsewhere?) I love to listen to live music and also dance. I was a "ski bum" in Aspen for a ski season after I graduated from college and my love of the mountains and skiing remains.I love going into the city for I love the energy of the city and I love all that Chicago has to offer. I am on a mission to get back into top condition so I have been hitting the gym and/or hiking quite a lot lately. Does anyone want to join me with my new goal? I like being active for I have been blessed with great health. I took up East Coast Swing/Salsa dancing and sailing in my 50's so I am always ready to learn a new hobby or sport. I am a certified diver but I have not gone on a dive for many years. I also like my quiet time and enjoy cuddling and watching a good movie. If you dislike someone who is liberal politically, you may want to stay away? I have a BA in Political Science from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. I am not religious but spiritual. I love to travel and I have been fortunate to have visited a number of countries. I have had a high stress career in the oil industry in the past and I was also a stay at home mom. I am now working in the event planning industry. Please include a picture on your profile without sunglasses. I want to see those great eyes. Don't be shy. Let's have some fun and see if anything develops. The meeting of two people is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed:)
What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to simplify my life and reduce my daily stress. I have sold my large home and now I am going to rent a condo for awhile until I decide where and how I want to live. We don't look like we did when we were 20 lol but I am attempting to fight the aging process with my weapons of exercise, healthy food, humor, fun and good friends.
I’m really good at
I am really good at having fun, especially when listening to live music, dancing, skiing, hiking, skating, playing on the water or learning a new sport/activity. I love finding fun things to do in the city. I love discovering new music and new fun venues. Have you heard of Guitarra Azul, a great local Latin group or Kevin Purcell and the Nightburners, a great local Blues group? I am very proud of my daughter who will have her Master's from the University of Chicago this August. I know I have been a good mom for I raised her by myself since she was in 8th grade. I know that I am a survivor for I have been through much. The bad times only make the good times much sweeter!
The first things people usually notice about me
The first things people really notice about me is that I don't act like an old person. I do really try to eat healthy but every now and then I will indulge in a hamburger or steak, but I rarely eat fast foods.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The latest book that I read which I really loved combined history and romance. It is called "Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet." I confess that I do not read as much as I would like for I still work full time. I love intense movies and live plays. I love the blues, rock music, old 50's music to dance to, swing music, big band, Latin, classical and more. I love trying new foods, especially Thai and Vietnamese. I am always trying to discover new local live music and I have found a number of great local bands. I have gone to the Crossroads Festivals in Chicago. I really need to be outside as much as possible so I am always looking for new ways to enjoy the outdoors which can be a challenge with the Midwest weather. I can walk for miles and I love spending a day exploring Chicago.
The six things I could never do without
1.smiling dogs,2. sunny days, 3 haunting music, 4 new foods and new cultures,5 turquoise oceans and rugged mountains and 6 exploring new places/activities with a friend or partner.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I may be living five years from now?
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am listening to live music and hopefully dancing or cuddling with someone who is very special to me .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing that I'm willing to admit is that I can't imagine spending the rest of my life alone.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 51–63
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you enjoy some similar activities or you would like to introduce me to some new music/dance/adventures/hobbies/sports. No super old photos please!

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