I say rad a lot.
I'm incredibly independent and also value a bit of alone time, which can be a problem when it comes to relationships, but I'm trying to balance those things with the warm, fuzzy feeling (these are not words I use frequently!) that comes along with hanging out with someone (or many people) that you really enjoy.
I (and approximately 1 kajillion other people out there) don't like OKC's options for sexual identity. I tend to not really identify- something that happened too many years ago to count. I just am who I am, and you just are who you are- and it may be that I'm attracted to you and it may be that I'm not. I don't want to shove myself into a box that ends up defining my destiny/dating status/the crowd I hang out with/etc. But I had to pick something. And I'll be honest- when it comes to relationships, I tend to be more interested in women. Although recently I've found some men fairly fascinating... Contradictory and not really useful, I know. Want to hang out and make a new friend? Again totally open to both genders, but I seem to make friends with guys easier than women- although the female friends I have are really important to me and totally awesome.