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skillet4u

33 / M / straight / Available

Tulsa, Oklahoma

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
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Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am energetic, easy-going, and funny.

My Self-Summary

When I'm not working I enjoy spending time with friends and family. I love the outdoors, golf, tennis etc.... I love attending sporting events...going out for a drink, dancing.... Work and family keep me very busy so when I go out, I like to make it count! I am a very clean cut guy and I typically get along with and love hanging out with all types of people. I truly appreciate different personalities, lifestyles, ethnicities etc.... I consider myself to be a good listener. I love to ask lots of questions and I absoutely enjoy learning things about people!!

What I’m doing with my life

I've been in management within the same industry for about 10 years and I love what I do. I wish my schedule allowed me more time to volunteer and help others. ...more and more I am working hard to make it a priority to volunteer.

I’m really good at

I absolutely love doing massage. I would do it for a living if I could. I study massage and have several friends that have been doing massage for years that show me the ropes. I guess I'm okay at it...they call ME when they are ready for their massage! I suppose I'm really good at work since that's what I do most of the time! I'm not necessarily really good at playing piano and guitar but I absolutely enjoy doing both.
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The first things people usually notice about me

Height: I'm 6'4 which isn't extremely tall but it stands out to people. ...followed by blue eyes and blondish red hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I recently read The Shack and I loved it. I'm a fan of the The Great Escape and Shawshank Redemption. I'm also a big fan of Mexican Food and Chinese Food! I have a wide range of taste in music!

On a typical Friday night I am

...hanging out with friends and/or family. I don't get much time to play so when I do, I like to make it worth my time. ....that could involve being intimate with someone or just going out for a drink and/or dancing with someone new. I love meeting new people!

You should message me if

First of all, you have to be okay with my being in an open relationship. Please don't have any preconceived ideas about what that means. Your first mistake would be to assume you know exactly what that means and what rules and/or guidelines are part of that life style. Be open-minded. At the very least there is a good chance you will make a very good friend(s). There aren't many people that I can't stand but I'm typically less fond of people that are judgemental about people in open relationships. I think people that consider it to be immoral are VeRy misguided, mislead and/or mis-informed. I DO NOT necessarily think that it is FOR every couple.