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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:13am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I am the most adventurous/low-key person you will ever meet. Day-to-day I enjoy the simple pleasures of developing my yoga practice, coding, cooking, roaming the city (especially the outer-boroughs, by foot and bike), and living simply. At the same time I've lived and worked in India, China, Singapore and Australia; in my younger days I hitchhiked to the Arctic Ocean and worked on an organic brown rice farm in the foothills of the Himalayas. Although I come across as fairly sociable, on Myers-Briggs I am always portrayed as introverted (I'm an INFP if that means anything to you!) and I have a small circle of close friends and family. Having said that I have a big heart with lots of room in my life for the right woman to share my adventures with.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living and working in Brooklyn. I changed careers 3 years ago and became a coder at a startup in DUMBO. Best decision I ever made!
I’m really good at
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1) Being present. Especially turning off the the smartphone--there are a lot of distractions out there and I believe its very important to disconnect.

2) Being prompt. My sister told me that when I'm not 5 minutes early, she starts to worry because she can count on me like clockwork.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Name says it tall! That I'm tall, skinny, and usually scruffy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have a penchant for Scandavian Crime Novels and in the past few years have read at least a couple dozen. Wallander and Martin Beck are my favorite fictional Swedish detectives. Now I read any international detective novels I can get my hands on. Please give me suggestions! Just read the Tattoo Murder Case, a postwar Japanese mystery...fantastic.

Nonfiction: Robert Caro. Have read all of his tomes and eagerly awaiting the next one.

Movies: I recently saw two films about East Germany in the 1980's -- "The Lives of Others" and "Barbara" -- they were both very moving and hope to see more like them.

Music: Soul and Retro-Soul, ie. Marvin Gaye and Amy Winehouse. Really into M.I.A. lately. And Sia!

TV: "In Treatment" is my favorite HBO series.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Things don't do very much for me, and to be honest I don't have very many of them. I am fueled by code, art, nature, travel, nyc, and my siblings (and nephew!).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
code. I love my work and I'm always studying or working on a project on the side.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Its probably been a busy week! I am taking it easy.
You should message me if
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If you want to go on bike rides in Brooklyn or hikes upstate. If you want to explore the outer-boroughs. If you think smartphones should be turned off on dates. If you are available. Or if you just want to meet for a drink or coffee!